
The Motive
10 minWhy So Many Leaders Abdicate Their Most Important Responsibilities
Introduction
Narrator: Imagine being the CEO of a successful company. You've worked hard, climbed the ladder, and now you occupy the corner office. But in private, you're struggling. A rival company, led by your nemesis, is outperforming you at every turn. Your investors are getting restless. In a moment of desperation, you reach out to that very rival for help, and he agrees to meet. He walks into your office and, after a tense conversation, delivers a devastating diagnosis: "You are doing the things you like to do. You aren’t doing the things your company needs you to do. And that is why your company’s performance is so far behind ours."
This is the exact predicament faced by Shay Davis, the fictional protagonist in Patrick Lencioni's powerful leadership fable, The Motive. The book argues that this scenario isn't just a story; it's a reflection of a deep, often-unexamined crisis in leadership. It reveals that the most critical question a leader must answer has nothing to do with strategy or skill, but with a single, foundational question: Why do you want to lead in the first place?
The Two Motives That Define Every Leader
Key Insight 1
Narrator: At the heart of Lencioni's work is a simple but profound dichotomy. He argues that all leaders operate from one of two fundamental motives. The first, and far too common, is Reward-Centered Leadership. These leaders view their position as the prize for years of hard work. They believe they've earned the right to enjoy the perks of the job, such as status, power, and the freedom to focus on tasks they find interesting or fun. They see leadership as a destination, a place of comfort and privilege.
The second, and far more effective, motive is Responsibility-Centered Leadership. These leaders see their role not as a reward, but as a profound duty. They accept that leadership is a sacrifice, requiring them to do the difficult, mundane, and uncomfortable things that the organization needs to succeed. For them, leadership is not about personal gratification but about serving the people and the mission of the enterprise.
Lencioni points out that society often encourages the wrong motive. From a young age, people are told to "be a leader" without any discussion of why. This creates an environment where leadership is pursued for its external rewards, not for the opportunity to serve. A leader driven by rewards will naturally avoid the unpleasant parts of the job, creating a vacuum of accountability and care that ultimately harms the organization. The choice between these two motives isn't just a philosophical preference; it dictates a leader's every action and determines the health of their team.
The CEO as Chief *Executing* Officer
Key Insight 2
Narrator: The fable of Shay Davis and his rival, Liam Alcott, masterfully illustrates the difference between these two motives in action. Shay, the CEO of Golden Gate Security, is a classic reward-centered leader. He enjoys the big-picture parts of his job, like strategy, finance, and deal-making. He avoids what he considers the messy, tedious work of managing his executive team, running effective meetings, and having difficult conversations.
When Liam, the CEO of the more successful Del Mar Alarm, comes to help, he reveals the secret he learned after his own past failure as a CEO. His consultants redefined his role. He was not the Chief Executive Officer, a title focused on status and high-level decisions. He was the Chief Executing Officer, a role centered on action and implementation. Liam explains that his primary job is to ensure the health and alignment of his leadership team. He spends most of his time managing his people, pushing them, and holding them accountable. He loves meetings because that's where the real work of leadership happens: confronting conflict, clarifying confusion, and making commitments.
Shay, by contrast, admits he hates meetings and tries to avoid them. He delegates the development of his team and justifies his hands-off approach by saying he trusts his people. Liam’s diagnosis is sharp and direct: Shay is abdicating the most essential responsibilities of his job because he doesn't enjoy them. He is treating the CEO role as a reward, allowing him to do what he likes, while Liam treats it as a responsibility, forcing him to do what the company needs.
The Five Abdications of Reward-Centered Leadership
Key Insight 3
Narrator: Lencioni moves from the fable to a practical framework, identifying five specific responsibilities that reward-centered leaders consistently neglect or abdicate. These omissions are the direct result of prioritizing personal comfort over organizational need.
First, they fail to develop the leadership team. They see team-building as a soft, optional activity, not a critical competitive advantage. They avoid the emotional and uncomfortable work required to build a cohesive, high-performing team.
Second, they neglect to truly manage their subordinates. They avoid getting into the details of their direct reports' work, often under the guise of "not micromanaging." This leads to a lack of accountability and alignment.
Third, and perhaps most critically, they avoid having difficult and uncomfortable conversations. Lencioni tells the story of a CEO who, needing to replace his CIO, never told the man directly. The CIO found out from a company-wide email and the CEO then actively dodged him for weeks, even pretending to be asleep when they were on the same private plane to avoid the conversation. This abdication creates a toxic culture of fear and disrespect.
Fourth, they fail to run great team meetings. Because they find meetings boring, they tolerate unfocused, unproductive sessions. This is lethal, as meetings are the primary setting where a leadership team makes decisions and commitments.
Finally, they fail to communicate constantly and repetitively to employees. They get bored of saying the same thing and forget that their employees haven't heard the message with the same frequency. They see communication as a task to be checked off, not as the central tool for maintaining alignment and morale.
The Unsexy Superpower of the Chief Reminding Officer
Key Insight 4
Narrator: Expanding on the final abdication, Lencioni argues that one of the most powerful things a responsibility-centered leader does is embrace the role of "Chief Reminding Officer." Reward-centered leaders hate repeating themselves because it’s not new or exciting for them. But great leaders understand that communication is not for their own entertainment; it’s for the benefit of the audience.
Employees are busy with their own jobs and are bombarded with information. For a message to stick, it must be repeated constantly, consistently, and through various channels. Lencioni cites the example of Alan Mulally, the celebrated CEO who turned around Ford Motor Company. When he presented his simple turnaround plan to the Wall Street Journal, they wrote an article. A year later, when they came back for an update, he presented the exact same plan. He explained that his job wasn't to come up with a new plan, but to keep the entire organization relentlessly focused on the current one. Similarly, Gary Kelly, the long-time CEO of Southwest Airlines, was known for consistently reinforcing the same core messages about culture and strategy for over a decade. These leaders understood that their most important job was to be the organization's chief source of clarity and alignment, a role that requires endless, patient repetition.
Conclusion
Narrator: The single most important takeaway from The Motive is that leadership is not a prize to be won, but a responsibility to be shouldered. The "why" behind a leader's ambition is not a minor detail; it is the foundational element that determines their behavior, their effectiveness, and the ultimate health of their organization. A leader motivated by rewards will inevitably abdicate the difficult, messy, and unglamorous work that is essential for success, leaving a trail of dysfunction and untapped potential.
The book leaves us with a profound challenge: to look inward with unflinching honesty. It asks anyone in or aspiring to a position of leadership to question their own motives. Are you pursuing leadership for the status and comfort it might provide? Or are you willing to embrace the difficult conversations, the tedious meetings, and the relentless repetition required to truly serve the people who depend on you? The answer to that question will define not only your career, but the fate of everyone you lead.