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The Unfair Advantage

9 min

How You Already Have What It Takes to Succeed

Introduction

Narrator: Imagine two equally qualified candidates, Sally and Jenna, applying for the same job. Sally spends hours perfecting her CV and cover letter, submitting them through an online portal. Jenna, who has a friend inside the company, simply has her CV handed directly to the hiring manager. Who has the better chance? The answer is obvious, and it reveals a fundamental truth about success: it isn't always fair. This scenario cuts to the heart of the modern myth of pure meritocracy, the belief that hard work and talent are all that matter.

In their book, The Unfair Advantage: How You Already Have What It Takes to Succeed, authors Ash Ali and Hasan Kubba dismantle this myth. They argue that success, particularly in the high-stakes world of startups, is not just awarded to the hardest workers. It is awarded to those who understand and leverage their unique, often unearned, set of "Unfair Advantages." The book provides a framework for identifying these personal assets and using them to build a life and a business on your own terms.

Success is a Combination of Hard Work and Unfair Advantages

Key Insight 1

Narrator: The book's central argument is that the "hard-work worship" narrative is a dangerous oversimplification. While effort is essential, it is not sufficient. The world is not a level playing field, and acknowledging this reality is the first step toward genuine success. The authors point to individuals like Evan Spiegel, the co-founder of Snapchat, who openly admitted his good fortune. Born into a wealthy Los Angeles family with powerful lawyer parents, Spiegel had access to elite education, influential connections, and a financial safety net that most entrepreneurs can only dream of. His journey to becoming the world's youngest self-made billionaire was fueled not just by a great idea, but by a "rocket ship" of privilege.

This isn't to diminish his work, but to be realistic about the factors involved. As LinkedIn co-founder Reid Hoffman stated when asked if his success was due to hard work or luck, the answer was "MASSIVELY BOTH, of course." An Unfair Advantage is any condition, asset, or circumstance that gives you a competitive edge. It could be your network, your expertise, your location, or even insights gained from a difficult upbringing. The key is that these advantages are unique to you and cannot be easily copied or bought, forming the foundation of a sustainable edge.

The MILES Framework is a Tool for Auditing Your Unique Strengths

Key Insight 2

Narrator: To help individuals identify their personal assets, Ali and Kubba developed the MILES Framework. This acronym represents the five core categories of Unfair Advantages: Money, Intelligence & Insight, Location & Luck, Education & Expertise, and Status.

  • Money is the most obvious advantage. It provides a financial cushion, allowing entrepreneurs to take risks, extend their "runway" (the time they can operate before running out of funds), and even acquire competitors, as the property site Zoopla did to quickly dominate search engine rankings. * Intelligence & Insight is not just about IQ. It includes "book smarts," like the deep technical knowledge the Collison brothers used to build the payments company Stripe, and "street smarts," the social and emotional intelligence that inventor Nikola Tesla famously lacked, leading to his financial ruin despite his genius. Crucially, it also includes unique insight—a deep understanding of a problem. Tristan Walker, for example, used his personal experience as a Black man struggling with razor burn to create Walker & Co., a grooming brand for people of color that was eventually acquired by Procter & Gamble. * Location & Luck refers to being in the right place at the right time. Silicon Valley became a tech powerhouse because of a cluster of universities, military funding, and venture capitalists, creating a virtuous cycle of innovation. Similarly, Huda Kattan leveraged her move to Dubai, a hub of wealth and glamour, to build her billion-dollar Huda Beauty empire. * Education & Expertise can be formal or self-taught. The founders of Google, Larry Page and Sergey Brin, leveraged their PhDs in computer science at Stanford to develop their revolutionary search algorithm. In contrast, author Ash Ali skipped university and taught himself web development, proving that expertise can be built through passion and self-directed learning. * Status is your personal brand and social standing. It can be inherited, like Kylie Jenner's fame, which she used to launch Kylie Cosmetics. It can also be earned. Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx, was an outsider to the hosiery industry. This "low status" gave her a unique insight that male executives missed, allowing her to build a billion-dollar company by solving a problem she personally understood.

A Reality-Growth Mindset is the Foundation for Success

Key Insight 3

Narrator: Underpinning the entire MILES framework is Mindset. The authors argue that your mindset is the most critical and controllable factor. They critique the popular "growth mindset"—the belief that you can achieve anything through effort—as incomplete because it ignores the reality of unfair advantages. A "fixed mindset"—the belief that your abilities are unchangeable—is equally limiting.

Instead, they propose a "Reality-Growth Mindset." This is a balanced approach that combines self-awareness with self-belief. It means being realistic about your circumstances, advantages, and disadvantages, while simultaneously believing in your ability to grow and improve. A person with this mindset can acknowledge that they may not become a professional basketball player if they are five feet tall, but they can still work to become the best player they can possibly be. This mindset is characterized by four key traits: a clear Vision for the future, Resourcefulness in solving problems, a commitment to Lifelong Learning, and the Grit to persevere through setbacks. Oprah Winfrey’s story exemplifies this; from a childhood of poverty, she held a powerful vision that her life would be better, and she relentlessly worked to make that vision a reality.

Leverage Your Advantages to Build the Right Startup for You

Key Insight 4

Narrator: The final part of the book is a practical guide to applying this knowledge. The first step is to align your startup idea with your unique advantages, a concept known as "founder-product-market fit." A startup's early success is almost entirely dependent on the founders' strengths. Steve Blank, a seasoned entrepreneur, tells the story of his failed gaming company, Rocket Science Games, which lost $35 million. The fatal flaw? None of the founders were actually gamers. They lacked the necessary insight and passion. In contrast, Louise Broni-Mensah founded Shoobs, a ticketing platform for urban music events, leveraging her deep personal insight into that culture to gain acceptance into the prestigious Y Combinator incubator.

Once you have an idea that fits you, it's crucial to start small. The authors advocate for "growth scrapping"—doing things that don't scale, like manually finding your first customers and providing them with incredible service. This is in contrast to "growth hacking," which comes later. The goal is to build a Minimum Viable Product (MVP) to test the idea and get real feedback. As LinkedIn co-founder Reid Hoffman famously said, "If you’re not embarrassed by the first version of your product, you’ve launched too late." This process of starting small, validating the idea, and leveraging your personal MILES profile dramatically increases the odds of building a sustainable business, whether it's a small lifestyle company or the next hyper-growth unicorn.

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from The Unfair Advantage is that the path to success is not about acquiring a set of skills you don't have or lamenting the privileges you weren't given. It is about conducting an honest audit of the advantages you already possess—your unique experiences, your insights, your network, your status—and building a strategy around them. Success is not about playing someone else's game better; it's about creating a new game where your unique advantages mean you're the one who makes the rules.

The book challenges you to stop comparing your journey to the highlight reels of outliers like Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos. Instead, it asks a more practical and empowering question: What is your unique combination of Money, Intelligence, Location, Education, and Status, and how can you leverage it, starting today, to solve a problem you care about? You already have what it takes to succeed; you just need to recognize it.

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