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Start With Who, Not What

12 min

Golden Hook & Introduction

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Mark: Most people think starting a business begins with a brilliant idea. A flash of genius. According to our book today, that’s not just wrong, it might be the very thing that leads you to fail. The real starting point is something far less glamorous, and far more powerful. Michelle: Okay, I’m hooked. You’re telling me my million-dollar-idea-generating shower thoughts are a waste of time? That feels a little harsh, Mark. Mark: It feels harsh, but it’s a dose of reality we all need. That's the core argument in Starting a Business QuickStart Guide by Ken Colwell. Michelle: Ken Colwell... he's not just a writer, right? He's got some serious street cred in this world. Mark: Exactly. He's a PhD, a former business school dean, and has consulted for hundreds of startups. He wrote this book because he kept seeing the same fundamental misunderstandings from aspiring entrepreneurs, people asking 'What's a million-dollar idea?' instead of asking the right questions. Michelle: I can see that. It’s the lottery ticket mindset applied to business. So if the first question isn’t ‘what’s my idea?’, what is it? Mark: The first question is, 'Who am I?' And that's where our journey begins today.

The Entrepreneurial Mindset: Why the 'Who' Beats the 'What'

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Mark: Colwell argues that before you can even think about a product or a market, you have to understand your own "entrepreneurial thumbprint." It’s this unique combination of your background, your talents, your connections, and your perspective. Michelle: A thumbprint. I like that. It implies it's something you already have, not something you have to invent. But what does that actually mean? Are we talking about personality traits? Mark: It's deeper than that. The book gives these great contrasting examples. You have Warren Buffett, who was encouraged to get a formal education. Then you have Mark Zuckerberg, who famously dropped out of college. And then there's Thomas Edison, who had very little formal schooling at all. Three wildly different paths, three monumental successes. There is no single mold. Michelle: Right, so the book is basically saying, 'stop trying to be Steve Jobs and start figuring out who you are.' But what are the key ingredients of this thumbprint? Mark: It boils down to a few key intangibles. The first is overcoming self-limiting beliefs. The book literally has a chapter titled, "What Are You Afraid Of?" It forces you to confront the internal narratives that hold you back—the fear of failure, the belief that you’re not a ‘business person.’ Michelle: Oh, I know that feeling. The classic imposter syndrome. You think everyone else has this secret knowledge you just don't possess. Mark: Precisely. And Colwell’s point is that business skills can be learned or hired. What can’t be easily acquired is resilience, self-awareness, and what he calls mindfulness. Michelle: Wait, mindfulness? In the context of a startup? I can barely find time to check my email. How is being mindful practical when you’re trying to build a company from scratch? Mark: That’s the exact reaction he anticipates. He’s not talking about sitting in a lotus position for an hour a day. He’s talking about being present and intentional with your actions. And he uses a powerful, and frankly, scary story to illustrate it. Arianna Huffington, founder of The Huffington Post. Michelle: Oh yeah, the queen of media. Mark: In the early days, she was the definition of hustle. Eighteen-hour days, running on fumes, completely sleep-deprived. She was driven by this immense passion to build her company. And it worked, externally. The company was growing. But then one day, she collapsed in her office from sheer exhaustion, hit her head on her desk, and woke up in a pool of her own blood. Michelle: Wow. That's... intense. Mark: And her epiphany, which she shares in the book, is profound. She says, "By any sane definition of success, if you are lying in a pool full of blood on the floor of your office, you are not successful." Her passion was real, but it was un-mindful. It was a blind chase. Mindfulness is about knowing why you’re working so hard and ensuring it aligns with a life you actually want to live. Michelle: That makes so much more sense. It’s not about slowing down, it’s about being smarter about your energy. But what about luck? You can have the best mindset in the world, but sometimes you just need a lucky break. Mark: The book tackles that head-on. It acknowledges luck plays a role—a chance meeting, a market shift. But it frames it with that classic quote: "Luck is where preparation meets opportunity." You can't control the opportunity, but you can absolutely control your preparation. Your mindset is your preparation.

The Value Proposition: Are You a Solution in Search of a Problem?

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Michelle: Okay, so once you've sorted out your own head, you still have to sell something. And the book has this great, almost brutal, focus on solving a real problem. It’s not enough to have a cool product. Mark: Exactly. This brings us to the strategic heart of the book: the Value Proposition. It’s the answer to two simple but critical questions: Who is your target customer? And how are you different from your competition? Michelle: Simple questions, but I bet most founders get them wrong. Mark: They do. They fall into the trap of becoming a "solution in search of a problem." To illustrate this, the book shares a fantastic analogy from the legendary marketer Gary Halbert. He asks his students, if you were opening a burger cart, what single advantage would you want over your competitors? Michelle: I’d want the best meat, a secret sauce, a prime location right on a busy corner. Mark: Those are the answers everyone gives. Halbert’s answer? He only wanted one thing: a starving crowd. Michelle: A starving crowd. That’s brilliant. Because if they’re hungry enough, they don’t care about your secret sauce. They just want a burger. Mark: Precisely. The most important factor for any business is a market that has a desperate, burning need for what you’re selling. Everything else is secondary. And when you forget that, you end up with spectacular failures, like the ESPN Phone. Michelle: The ESPN Phone? I vaguely remember this. This was back in the mid-2000s, right? Mark: Yes, 2005. On paper, it seemed like a good idea. ESPN is a massive, trusted brand. Smartphones were getting popular. So they launched their own phone, a special device that gave you up-to-the-minute sports alerts and content. Michelle: It sounds like a solution. Sports fans want scores. What went wrong? Mark: They failed to ask what problem this actually solved for the customer. People could already get sports news on their existing phones through other carriers. In exchange for these "exclusive" alerts, customers had to accept a clunky, overpriced phone with a restrictive contract. They were offering a feature, not a real solution to a painful problem. Michelle: It was a solution in search of a problem. They built a burger cart with a fancy logo but forgot to check if anyone was actually hungry. That feels so relevant today with all the tech gadgets that launch and then vanish. Mark: It's the same trap. The book drives this home by forcing you to analyze your competition, both direct and indirect. Michelle: Can you clarify that difference? I think people get those confused. Mark: It's simple. A direct competitor offers the same solution. Two pizza shops on the same street are direct competitors. An indirect competitor offers a different solution to the same problem. The pizza shop and the sandwich shop next door are indirect competitors. They both solve the problem of "I'm hungry and need lunch," but in different ways. The ESPN Phone wasn't just competing with other phones; it was competing with every other way a fan could get scores, and it wasn't a better solution than any of them.

The Business Plan: A Living Compass, Not a Static Map

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Mark: And connecting that internal mindset—the 'who'—with that external strategy—the 'what'—is where the dreaded business plan comes in. But Colwell argues we've been thinking about it all wrong. Michelle: Oh, the business plan. The 50-page document that’s obsolete the second you print it. I hear so many entrepreneurs say, "I don't need a business plan because things change too fast." Mark: That's the number one misconception he wants to dismantle. The book reframes the business plan not as a static map, but as a living compass. Its primary value isn't the final document you hand to an investor; it's the process of creating it. Michelle: So it’s a tool for yourself, first and foremost? Mark: Exactly. It's a discovery tool. It forces you to put your assumptions on paper and test them. It’s a feasibility test. And the book has this perfect thought experiment to show why this matters. Imagine two entrepreneurs, A and B, are pitching an investor. Both are projecting $10 million in sales by year three. Michelle: A nice, round, optimistic number. I'm familiar. Mark: The investor asks Entrepreneur A, "How did you get to that number?" Entrepreneur A gives a vague, hand-wavy answer: "Well, it's a billion-dollar market, we only need to capture 1% of it, and our tech is disruptive!" Michelle: I have heard that exact pitch. It sounds impressive but means nothing. Mark: Right. Now, the investor asks Entrepreneur B the same question. Entrepreneur B says, "Our target market is this specific segment of 100,000 businesses. Our research shows they spend an average of X amount on this problem. We currently have 50 paying customers, and our growth rate is 15% month-over-month. If we maintain that, we'll hit $10 million in year three. Here are our detailed assumptions." Who gets the check? Michelle: Entrepreneur B, no question. Because they've actually done the work. They didn't just guess. The process of planning gave them the answers. Mark: That's the whole point. The business plan is your personal due diligence. It's where you confront the gaps in your own knowledge. It’s not about predicting the future perfectly; it’s about understanding the mechanics of your own business so you can adapt intelligently when things inevitably change. Michelle: But writing a huge plan still feels so overwhelming, especially for a solo founder. It feels like you could spend a year planning and never actually launch. Mark: And Colwell agrees. He quotes, "Writing your business plan is important, but at some point you have to put down the pen and get out there!" The goal isn't a perfect, unchangeable document. It's a "living document." It's your compass. When you get lost in the woods, you don't throw your compass away because the terrain doesn't match the map. You use the compass to find your new bearing. That's the business plan.

Synthesis & Takeaways

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Michelle: So it's not a linear path at all. It's this constant, dynamic dance between knowing yourself, deeply understanding your customer's problem, and having a flexible plan to connect the two. Mark: Exactly. Entrepreneurship isn't a checklist; Colwell frames it as the ultimate creative act. It requires passion, but it also requires technical skill and strategic thinking. It’s not about finding a magic formula. Michelle: It’s interesting, the book is highly rated by readers, but some academic critics point out that its focus on the entrepreneur's execution might downplay the sheer power of market forces. But it sounds like Colwell is saying you can't control the market, so you have to master what you can control: yourself and your plan. Mark: That’s the essence of it. And if there’s one concrete thing to take away from our discussion today, it’s to start with the question from that chapter title: "What are you afraid of?" Michelle: That’s a powerful question. Not 'what's my idea?' or 'how much money can I make?' but what are the internal fears and beliefs that are stopping me? Mark: Yes. Answering that question honestly is the first real step on the entrepreneurial journey. It’s the beginning of building that resilient, mindful foundation. Everything else—the value proposition, the business plan, the funding—it all rests on that. Mark: This is Aibrary, signing off.

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