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Make It Make Sense

11 min

An Intro to Magical Overthinking

Introduction

Narrator: In 1995, a man named McArthur Wheeler walked into two Pittsburgh banks in broad daylight and robbed them. He didn't wear a mask or any real disguise, yet he was shocked when police, armed with crystal-clear surveillance footage, arrested him later that day. His defense was baffling. He told the officers, "But I wore the juice." Wheeler genuinely believed that rubbing lemon juice on his face would make him invisible to security cameras. This wasn't a joke; it was a profound failure of self-awareness, an inability to recognize his own incompetence that was so complete it became a case study in psychology.

This bizarre story is one of many that author Sasha Chapin uses to peel back the layers of our own irrational minds in her book, Make It Make Sense: An Intro to Magical Overthinking. Chapin argues that we are all, in our own ways, a bit like McArthur Wheeler. We live in an "Age of Magical Overthinking," where our ancient, superstitious brains are overwhelmed by information overload, societal pressure, and mass loneliness. The book serves as a field guide to the cognitive biases—the mental shortcuts and glitches in our thinking—that cause us to misinterpret the world, get trapped in toxic patterns, and fall for comforting lies over hard truths.

Our Crisis of the Mind Is Fueled by Magical Overthinking

Key Insight 1

Narrator: Chapin begins by diagnosing the core ailment of the modern era: a crisis of the mind. While previous generations fought for physical and political freedoms, ours is a battle waged internally against anxiety, irrationality, and a pervasive sense of dread. She introduces the concept of "Magical Overthinking," a state where our innate superstitions clash with the pressures of capitalism and the endless firehose of information from the internet. This leads to a collective erosion of a shared reality.

The author illustrates this with her own experiences in the early 2020s, a time when she felt a "dread for no reason." Her attempts to escape her own head were a catalogue of modern wellness trends: she visited an adult petting zoo, tried meditating with a computer voice, and even picked herbs on a farm in Sicily. These superficial fixes failed to address the root cause, leading her to investigate the cognitive biases that distort our thinking. She points to the rise of fringe conspiracy theories, celebrity worship, and nostalgia-driven movements as symptoms of this widespread derangement, arguing that understanding our mind's natural distortions is the first step toward navigating this chaotic age.

The Halo Effect Creates and Destroys Our Idols

Key Insight 2

Narrator: The book explores how our brains create gods out of mortals through the "halo effect," a bias where we assume a person's overall character is good based on a single positive trait. This is the engine of modern celebrity worship. Chapin uses the case of Taylor Swift to show how this plays out. Fans, or "stans," elevate Swift to a maternal, godlike status, projecting their own values and expectations onto her. But this deification inevitably leads to dethronement. When Swift failed to meet the impossibly high standards her fans set—whether in ticket sales, political activism, or her personal life—the adoration curdled into outrage and betrayal.

Chapin parallels this with a deeply personal story about her own mother, a brilliant cancer cell biologist whom she had placed on a similar pedestal. She saw her mother as a mythical, perfect figure, and was disappointed by any sign of normal human flaw. It was only after a major argument, when her mother shared stories of her own vulnerabilities and struggles, that Chapin could see her as a whole person. The lesson is clear: whether it's a pop star or a parent, the halo effect sets us up for disappointment. True connection requires seeing people in their full, complex humanity, not as flawless idols.

Proportionality Bias Makes Us Vulnerable to "Conspirituality"

Key Insight 3

Narrator: Why do we crave grand explanations for major events? Chapin explains this is due to "proportionality bias," our tendency to believe that big events must have equally big causes. This bias fuels both conspiracy theories and the modern wellness trend of "conspirituality." The book presents the story of "The Manifestation Doctor," a psychologist who built a multi-million dollar empire by offering simple, spiritual-sounding solutions to complex mental health problems. She told her millions of followers that "disease doesn't run in families, habits do," placing the blame for suffering squarely on the individual's mindset.

This message is dangerously appealing because it offers a sense of control in a chaotic world. The book tells the tragic story of Heather, a new mother whose father, a recovering addict, began following The Manifestation Doctor. Convinced he could heal himself, he stopped taking his medication and was soon pulled into the QAnon conspiracy rabbit hole, severing his connection to his family and reality. This demonstrates how the search for a grand, simple cause for suffering, amplified by social media algorithms, can lead vulnerable people down a path of radicalization.

The Sunk Cost Fallacy Traps Us in Toxic Relationships

Key Insight 4

Narrator: Chapin reframes toxic relationships as a "cult of one," arguing that the manipulative dynamics mirror those found in larger cults. A key reason people stay in these damaging situations is the "sunk cost fallacy"—the irrational belief that you must continue with something because you've already invested so much time, energy, or money into it.

The author shares her own painful seven-year relationship with an older, controlling man she calls "Mr. Backpack." She abandoned her dream of moving to New York, isolated herself from friends, and endured emotional abuse, all because she had already invested her youth and identity in the relationship. To leave would be to admit that her investment was a waste. This is compounded by what researchers call "additive solution bias." Instead of solving the problem by subtracting the toxic element (the relationship), she tried to fix it by adding things—a new apartment, a vacation—which only deepened the trap. The chapter concludes that escaping such a "cult" requires recognizing this fallacy and finding the courage to cut your losses, no matter how great the investment.

Zero-Sum Bias Fuels a Culture of Comparison and Competition

Key Insight 5

Narrator: In a world of constant social media comparison, it's easy to fall for "zero-sum bias," the false belief that another person's success is your loss. Chapin explores this through her time working as a beauty editor, an industry built on fostering insecurity. She found herself in a vicious cycle of comparing herself to other women, whether it was an "ocean-eyed movie star" or, after she quit, other successful writers on Instagram.

This competitive mindset is not only exhausting but also counterproductive. The book introduces "Shine Theory," an idea popularized by Ann Friedman, as the antidote. The theory posits that "I don't shine if you don't shine." Instead of viewing intimidating people as rivals, we should befriend them and celebrate their success. Chapin recounts hearing stories of how even titans like Steven Spielberg and Tom Hanks felt insecure and jealous of their peers. The liberating realization is that social comparison is a universal, irrational trap. True success and fulfillment come from collaboration and mutual support, not from trying to win a game that has no real winners.

Survivorship Bias Blinds Us to Reality

Key Insight 6

Narrator: The book uses the classic example of World War II planes to explain "survivorship bias." The military wanted to add armor to their planes, so they studied the ones that returned from missions and planned to reinforce the areas with the most bullet holes. A statistician pointed out their error: they were only looking at the survivors. The planes that were shot down were the ones hit in the areas that had no bullet holes on the returning planes. They were protecting against the injuries that expressly weren't fatal.

Chapin applies this to our culture's narratives of success. We focus on the triumphant stories of entrepreneurs who dropped out of college or cancer patients who beat the odds with a positive attitude, ignoring the vast majority who failed or did not survive. This creates a distorted view of reality. The book highlights the powerful counter-narrative of "dying girls on YouTube," young women who vlogged their raw, unfiltered experiences with terminal illness. They didn't offer easy platitudes or miracle cures. Instead, they provided a space for the reality of mortality, challenging the survivorship bias that sanitizes stories of illness and adversity.

Conclusion

Narrator: Ultimately, Make It Make Sense is a compelling argument that self-awareness is the most critical tool for navigating the modern world. The book's single most important takeaway is that our brains are not objective processors of reality; they are story machines, riddled with ancient biases that can be easily exploited. By learning to identify the halo effect, the sunk cost fallacy, survivorship bias, and the other glitches in our thinking, we can begin to reclaim a sense of agency.

The book doesn't offer a simple ten-step plan to happiness, because that would be falling for the very biases it critiques. Instead, it leaves us with a more profound challenge: to live consciously in a world that profits from our fantasies. The most radical act of all may be to question the stories we tell ourselves—about our relationships, our careers, and our place in the world—and to have the courage to face reality, even when it doesn't make perfect sense.

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