
The Reciprocity Advantage
13 minA New Way to Partner for Innovation and Growth
Golden Hook & Introduction
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Joe: Lewis, what’s the first rule of a fight club for business secrets? Lewis: You do not talk about the business secrets. You lock them in a vault, post a guard, and maybe add a laser grid for good measure. Joe: Exactly. But what if the most powerful strategic move you could make is to give those secrets away? To just open the vault and invite people in. Lewis: That sounds like a recipe for immediate bankruptcy. Who on earth does that and survives? Joe: Well, that's the fascinating territory we're exploring today with the book The Reciprocity Advantage by Bob Johansen and Karl Ronn. And this book is a really unique mashup. You've got Johansen, a 30-year futurist from the Institute for the Future in Silicon Valley, paired with Ronn, the guy who was on the ground at Procter & Gamble helping launch billion-dollar brands like Swiffer and Febreze. Lewis: Oh, I see. So it’s the visionary meets the practitioner. The "what if" meets the "how to." Joe: Precisely. It’s foresight meets action. And they argue that in our hyper-connected world, the old rules of hoarding advantage are not just outdated; they're a liability. The real power, they say, comes from giving. Lewis: Okay, my skeptical alarms are ringing. ‘Giving’ sounds nice, but business is competitive. It feels like you’re just arming your rivals. How does this not end in disaster? Joe: It’s a great question, and sometimes the most powerful examples of this happen almost by accident, when a company is forced into it. Which brings us to the wild story of Microsoft and a little device called the Kinect.
The Counterintuitive Idea: Giving to Grow
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Lewis: Right, I remember the Kinect! The motion-sensing camera for the Xbox. You could wave your arms around and pretend to be a Jedi. It was a huge deal for a while. Joe: A massive deal. Microsoft poured hundreds of millions into it. It was meant to be a closed, perfect, plug-and-play gaming peripheral. But within days of its launch in 2010, the inevitable happened. Lewis: Let me guess. Hackers. Joe: Hackers. They cracked it wide open. Suddenly, there were videos all over the internet of people using the Kinect to do things Microsoft never dreamed of. They were making 3D models of their living rooms, creating puppet shows with their hands, even using it for robotic surgery simulations. Lewis: Wow. So what did Microsoft do? Send out an army of lawyers? Joe: That was the first instinct. The legal team was in a panic. This was a flagrant violation of their intellectual property. They issued threats, they promised to work with law enforcement. But the internet did what the internet does. One open-source hardware enthusiast, in defiance, offered a prize to the first person who could create a completely open-source driver for the Kinect. Lewis: That’s bold. A direct challenge. Joe: And it worked. The prize was claimed in days. At that point, Microsoft was at a crossroads. They could either spend years playing a futile game of legal whack-a-mole, or they could do something radical. Lewis: They could join the party. Joe: They joined the party. In a stunning reversal, Microsoft’s executives announced they were opening the platform. They released their own official Software Development Kit, or SDK, inviting developers and tinkerers to build on the Kinect. They essentially said, "You know what? You guys are right. This is more than a game controller. Show us what it can do." Lewis: Hold on. So Microsoft just… gave up control? Weren't they worried about quality, or people making terrible applications that would tarnish the Kinect brand? It sounds like inviting chaos. Joe: They were absolutely worried. But what they discovered is the core of the reciprocity advantage. They shifted from controlling to curating. They couldn't stop the wave, so they decided to steer it. By giving away access, they turned thousands of passionate hackers from adversaries into an unpaid, global R&D department. These people weren't just using the Kinect; they were inventing its future. Microsoft uncovered a vast new "right-of-way" for their technology in fields like healthcare, education, and art—markets they never would have reached on their own. Lewis: So the "reciprocity" here was Microsoft giving away access, and in return, they got a roadmap to a much bigger future for their product. Joe: Exactly. It’s a perfect example of "giving to grow." This is a theme you see in other successful modern platforms too. Think about TED. For years, it was an exclusive, expensive conference. Then they started putting the talks online for free. Lewis: And then came TEDx. Joe: Right. They gave away their brand, their format, for free, to anyone who would follow a few simple rules. They didn't pre-screen the speakers or co-organize the events. They curated, they didn't control. The result? Over 40,000 TEDx talks are now online from events in more than 130 countries. Their brand influence exploded. They couldn't have paid for that kind of scale. They had to give it away to get it. Lewis: Okay, I can see how it works for a non-profit like TED or in an accidental case like Microsoft. But this "right-of-way" idea... it feels a bit abstract. If you're not Microsoft with a fancy camera, how do you find this hidden potential in your own world? Joe: That's the million-dollar question, and the book offers a fascinating, almost tragic, historical lesson on what happens when you're blind to the right-of-way that's staring you in the face.
The Framework: Finding Your Hidden Goldmine (The Right-of-Way)
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Lewis: A tragic lesson? I'm intrigued. This sounds like a business ghost story. Joe: It practically is. We have to go back to the late 19th century. What was the biggest, most powerful industry in America? Lewis: The railroads, for sure. They were the internet of their day. Connecting the country, moving everything and everyone. Joe: They were titans. They owned the tracks, the trains, the stations. They had a massive, unassailable business. And one day, some inventors show up with a new-fangled technology: the telegraph. They had a problem. To make the telegraph work, they needed to string wires across vast distances. Lewis: And the railroads owned the perfect path to do that—the land right alongside their tracks. Joe: The perfect right-of-way. So the telegraph guys go to the railroad barons and say, "Hey, can we pay you to string our wires above your tracks?" And the railroad executives, as the story goes, thought about it and said, "Well, I suppose it could help us coordinate our train schedules better." Lewis: Oh no. I see where this is going. Joe: They saw it purely as a tool to improve their existing business. They couldn't imagine that this little clicking machine could ever be a business in its own right. As Tim Brown, the CEO of IDEO, famously said, "They loved their trains too much." They were in the train business, not the transportation business, and certainly not the communication business. Lewis: So they let the telegraph companies build a multi-billion dollar industry on their land, and they just took a small fee for it. They missed the entire revolution. Joe: They missed everything. They had the asset, the right-of-way, but they couldn't see its potential. Now, contrast that with a company like IBM. In the 70s and 80s, what was IBM's right-of-way? Lewis: Big computers. Mainframes. Big, blue, serious machines for serious companies. Joe: Right. But then the world changed. Computers got smaller, more personal. Apple ran that famous 1984 Super Bowl ad painting IBM as Big Brother. Their hardware business was becoming a liability. So what did they do? Lewis: They pivoted. Hard. Joe: They reimagined their right-of-way. They realized their real asset wasn't just building the machines; it was their deep knowledge of how businesses use technology. They sold off their PC business and went all-in on services and consulting. Then, as data became the new oil, they pivoted again. They built Watson, their AI, and redefined their right-of-way as "Big Data Analytics" and "Smarter Planet" solutions. They went from selling boxes to selling intelligence. Lewis: That's a great historical lesson, but for a regular business owner or even an individual today, what does that look like? Is my 'right-of-way' the empty desk in my office or the fact that I know how to use Excel really well? Joe: It could be! The book gives a simple three-step framework to find it. First, you have to brutally define your core business. What do you actually do that makes money? P&G realized they weren't in the "soap" business; they were in the "cleaning" business. That clarity allowed them to invent Swiffer, which isn't a soap at all. Lewis: Okay, so step one is clarity. What's next? Joe: Step two is to reinvent your business as a service. Ask yourself: what job is my customer hiring my product to do? The railroads thought the job was "ride a train." But for the cousins visiting each other across the country, the real job was "stay connected." If the railroads had seen that, they might have invented the telephone. Lewis: And the third step? Joe: Redefine your business as an experience. This is where you find new growth. Once you know the job to be done, you can ask what other experiences surround it. That's how P&G went from just laundry detergent to creating Febreze, for all the clothes you don't wash. They moved into the experience of "freshness." Lewis: So it's a process of zooming out. From your product, to the service it provides, to the total experience around that service. And somewhere in that process, you find these underutilized assets or knowledge. Joe: Exactly. And the authors argue this isn't just a clever strategy for big companies anymore. Powerful forces are making this kind of thinking the only way to operate in the future. It's becoming a matter of survival.
The Future Forces: Why This Isn't Optional
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Lewis: A matter of survival? That sounds a bit dramatic. What forces are so powerful that they're making this mandatory? Joe: The book boils it down to four, but let's focus on two that we all feel every day. The first is the rise of the Digital Natives. Lewis: You mean the generations who grew up with a smartphone in their hand and never knew a world without the internet. Joe: Precisely. Their entire media ecology is different. They haven't been trained as passive consumers of one-way media like TV commercials. They've grown up in interactive, participatory worlds, especially video games. They expect to be able to shape their environment, to co-create, to have a voice. Lewis: Right, they don't just want to buy the product; they want to be part of the community, maybe even influence the next version of the product. The old model of a company broadcasting a message at them just doesn't work. Joe: It's completely ineffective. Companies now have to engage them in playful, authentic ways. Think of the "Crash the Super Bowl" contest by Doritos, where they let fans make the commercials. What people say about your brand is now infinitely more important than what you say about it. You have to invite them in. That's a form of reciprocity. Lewis: Okay, that makes sense. The customers themselves are a force for change. What's the other one? Joe: The other is a concept they call Socialstructing. It's a fancy word for how technology is blowing up the traditional structures of work and partnership. Lewis: You mean the gig economy? Joe: That's a big part of it. Think about platforms like oDesk, which is now Upwork, or TaskRabbit. The very idea of a "job" is being broken down into a series of tasks that can be routed to anyone, anywhere in the world. This creates a massive, fluid pool of potential partners. Lewis: So it's not just about a big company partnering with another big company anymore. A corporation can now partner with a thousand individuals for a single project. Joe: Or an individual can partner with a global platform to build their own micro-business. The boundaries are dissolving. This creates an environment where collaboration, reputation, and trust—the currencies of reciprocity—are essential. If you can't partner effectively in this new, socially-structured world, you'll be left behind. Lewis: Right, so it's not just about business partnerships. It's about the fact that the very idea of a stable, siloed 'job' or a 'company' is becoming more fluid. We're all becoming nodes in a network, whether we like it or not. The ability to give and receive value within that network is the new core skill. Joe: That's the whole game. The future, they argue, belongs to those who can master this art of scalable reciprocity.
Synthesis & Takeaways
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Lewis: So when you pull it all together—the Kinect hackers, the sad story of the railroads, the rise of the digital natives—what's the one big idea we should walk away with? Joe: I think it's a fundamental shift in how we view value. The old model was about value capture. You build a fortress, you create a product, you protect it with patents and lawyers, and you defend it to the death. The goal is to own and control. Lewis: The zero-sum game. For me to win, you have to lose. Joe: Exactly. But what this book proposes is a new model of value creation. It's about building a city, not a fortress. You build a platform, an ecosystem, and you leave the gates open. The value comes from the traffic, the trade, the unexpected connections that you enable. You might not own every transaction, but you benefit from the vibrancy of the entire system you've helped create. Lewis: It's a profound mindset flip. It moves from a scarcity mentality—'I have to hoard what's mine'—to an abundance mentality—'what can we create together if we share?' Joe: And that's the real takeaway. The book got some mixed reviews, with some readers finding it a bit too optimistic about the willingness of corporations to genuinely share. But you can't deny the power of the underlying trend. The most disruptive companies of the last decade, from Airbnb to Uber, are built on this very principle. They don't own the cars or the apartments; they own the platform that enables reciprocity between people. Lewis: That's a powerful point. So for everyone listening, the question to ask isn't 'what can I protect?' but 'what underutilized asset—my knowledge, my network, my platform—could I share to create something new?' It's a challenge to find your own hidden right-of-way. Joe: It is. And it starts with a simple, powerful idea: give to grow. Lewis: A fantastic and challenging thought to end on. We'd love to hear what our listeners think. What's your hidden 'right-of-way'? Let us know on our social channels. Joe: This is Aibrary, signing off.