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The Procrastination Cure

11 min

7 Steps to Stop Putting Life Off

Introduction

Narrator: An individual plans to make a few important business calls, a task they know is critical. But the thought of it triggers a wave of anxiety. Instead of picking up the phone, they find themselves wandering to the refrigerator, tidying an already clean desk, or getting lost in a social media feed. The calls remain unmade, and a familiar feeling of guilt settles in. This cycle of delay, avoidance, and regret is a universal experience, but what if it isn't a sign of laziness or a character flaw? What if it's a symptom of something much deeper? In the book The Procrastination Cure, author and coach Jeffery Combs dismantles the common myths surrounding procrastination. He argues that it is not a time management problem but an emotion regulation problem—an effect of underlying fears and anxieties, not the cause of our failures.

Procrastination Is an Emotional Escape, Not a Character Flaw

Key Insight 1

Narrator: The central argument of The Procrastination Cure is a fundamental reframing of the issue: procrastination is an effect, not a cause. It is not an inherent personality trait but a learned behavior used to cope with negative emotions. When faced with a task that triggers feelings of anxiety, boredom, self-doubt, or fear of failure, the brain seeks an escape. Procrastination provides that immediate, albeit temporary, relief. This explains why so many people engage in what seems like irrational behavior—delaying an important task for a trivial one, despite knowing the delay will lead to guilt and shame later.

This issue is epidemic. Research cited in the book indicates that while 15 to 20 percent of adults are chronic procrastinators, a staggering 80 to 90 percent of college students report having major issues with it. The book illustrates this with the simple scenario of an individual avoiding business calls. The person doesn't lack discipline; they are actively avoiding the perceived pain associated with the calls. By choosing a less critical activity, like checking the fridge, they successfully escape the discomfort for a moment, even though it guarantees greater stress down the line. Understanding this emotional root is the first step, as it shifts the focus from self-blame to identifying and addressing the real cause.

The Neurotic Perfectionist Is Paralyzed by an Unattainable Standard

Key Insight 2

Narrator: Combs identifies six distinct types of procrastinators, each driven by different psychological factors. The first is the Neurotic Perfectionist, a person so terrified of failure and criticism that they become paralyzed. They set impossibly high standards for themselves and others, believing that anything less than flawless is a complete failure. This isn't about a healthy drive for excellence; it's a debilitating fear. As Combs notes, "Perfection is disappointment before it starts because there is no perfection."

A story in the book brings this type to life through Sarah, a talented graphic designer. Assigned a brochure for a major client, Sarah becomes obsessed with every minute detail. She spends hours tweaking fonts and revising layouts, convinced that a single misaligned text box will ruin the entire project. As the deadline looms, her anxiety skyrockets. She works late into the night, fueled by caffeine and self-doubt, but her constant revisions prevent her from ever finalizing the design. Ultimately, she misses the deadline, damaging her reputation and feeling immense shame. Sarah didn't fail because she was lazy; she failed because her perfectionism created a fear so great that it prevented her from completing the task.

The Big-Deal Chaser Is Addicted to the Vision, Not the Work

Key Insight 3

Narrator: Another common type is the Big-Deal Chaser. These individuals are charismatic, energetic, and full of idealistic dreams. They are brilliant at selling a vision and getting others excited about a grand new venture. However, they possess what Combs calls the "big hat, no cattle" syndrome—all talk and no follow-through. They are addicted to the initial excitement of a new idea but despise the methodical, daily discipline required to make it a reality.

The book shares the example of Mark, an entrepreneur who starts a promising tech company. In the initial stages, he is a force of nature, securing funding and building a team. But as the day-to-day grind of product development sets in, his attention drifts. He becomes captivated by the "next big thing," spending his time researching new trends and brainstorming other ventures while neglecting his current startup. He leaves his business partner to handle the operational details, and the company stagnates. Eventually, the startup fails, leaving Mark with a string of unfinished projects and a damaged reputation. The Big-Deal Chaser procrastinates on the present because they are perpetually intoxicated by an imagined, more glorious future.

The Rebellious Procrastinator Uses Defiance as a Shield

Key Insight 4

Narrator: The Rebellious Procrastinator is a more complex type, often exhibiting passive-aggressive behavior. They may agree to a task but then delay or "forget" to do it as a form of non-verbal defiance. Their procrastination is a tool for creating conflict and asserting control, often stemming from deep-seated feelings of inadequacy or resentment toward authority. They believe they are too talented or unique to be burdened with menial tasks, and their anger becomes a justification for their inaction.

Combs illustrates this with the story of an employee who had a controlling mother. This employee was charming on the surface but constantly created conflict at work. She would agree to projects but fail to deliver, subtly sabotaging workflows. Her defiance became her form of procrastination. By creating chaos, she fulfilled an unconscious identity of "not being good enough," a feeling ingrained in her by her mother. This behavior kept her busy but completely unproductive. For this type, Combs warns, "Don’t be so rebellious that you end up rebelling against your own success."

The Angry Giver Creates Resentment by Neglecting Themselves

Key Insight 5

Narrator: The Angry Giver is a procrastinator who over-commits to helping others at their own expense. Driven by a deep need for approval and recognition, they say "yes" to every request, taking on more than they can handle. They pride themselves on being selfless, but this excessive giving is often a disguised form of control rooted in low self-esteem. When their efforts aren't sufficiently appreciated, they become resentful and bitter.

This constant focus on others leads them to procrastinate on their own lives—their health, finances, and personal goals. The book tells the story of a client who, while trying to launch his own business, was made the executor of his elderly father's will. He spent three to seven hours every single day sorting through his father's paperwork, completely neglecting his own entrepreneurial venture. His business suffered immensely because his identity as a "giver" compelled him to prioritize his father's needs over his own, leading to procrastination on the very things that would secure his future.

Recovery Begins with Action, Not Just Intention

Key Insight 6

Narrator: After diagnosing the types, Combs outlines a recovery process built on concrete habits. The core message is that change comes from doing, not just thinking. One of the most powerful illustrations of this is the story of an action-oriented flight attendant. When a passenger left a bag on a plane, the gate agent began a long, bureaucratic ordeal, focused on proving the passenger wrong. The flight attendant, however, simply said, "I'll go get it," and solved the problem in minutes. She lived in the solution, not the problem.

This action-oriented mindset is supported by practical habits. One key habit is to "manage yourself in time" by breaking overwhelming tasks into small, manageable chunks. The book suggests the "Power of 15 Minutes" technique: set a timer and focus on a single task—like decluttering a desk—for just 15 minutes. This small, achievable goal builds momentum and reduces the feeling of being overwhelmed that so often triggers procrastination. By setting small goals and taking immediate action, recovering procrastinators build a new identity as a producer, one small step at a time.

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from The Procrastination Cure is that overcoming this debilitating habit is not about finding a better to-do list or mustering more willpower. It is about embarking on a journey of self-discovery to uncover the specific emotional drivers behind your personal brand of procrastination. Whether you are a Neurotic Perfectionist avoiding failure or an Angry Giver neglecting your own needs, the solution lies in addressing the root cause, not just the symptom.

The book's most challenging idea is its call to abandon a core piece of our identity. Many of us say "I am a procrastinator" as if it were a permanent trait. Combs forces us to see this as a false identity, a story we tell ourselves that reinforces the behavior. The real challenge, then, is to stop seeing procrastination as who you are and start seeing it as something you do—a pattern that, once understood, can be consciously and methodically changed.

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