
People Buy People, Not Logos
9 minHumanizing your brand in the age of social media and AI
Golden Hook & Introduction
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Olivia: Jackson, I've got a wild statistic for you. A brand message is over 500% more likely to be seen if an employee shares it versus the company's official account. Jackson: Five hundred percent? That can't be right. So all that money spent on slick corporate social media pages is basically just shouting into the void? Olivia: Essentially. And that's the bombshell we're unpacking today. It’s the core argument in Carlos Gil's award-winning book, The End of Marketing: Humanizing Your Brand in the Age of Social Media and AI. Jackson: The End of Marketing... that's a bold title. It sounds like he's declaring an entire industry obsolete. Olivia: He is, in a way. And it comes from his unique perspective. Gil is a first-generation Latino marketing executive who built his career from the ground up, so he has this deep understanding of hustle and authenticity that just cuts through all the corporate fluff. He argues the game has completely changed. Jackson: Well, I'm definitely tired of being sold to. Every time I open an app, it feels like I’m dodging digital billboards. Olivia: Exactly. And Gil says that’s the problem. Brands are still playing by old rules in a world that has fundamentally new social spaces.
The Death of Traditional Marketing & The Rise of the Human Connection
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Olivia: Let me ask you this, Jackson. Where do you think the modern-day shopping mall is for a 15-year-old? Jackson: Oh, that's easy. It's not a mall. It's their phone. Probably scrolling through TikTok or Instagram, I guess. Olivia: That's what most people think. But Gil points to something even more specific, and it's a perfect illustration of his main point. He talks about his own son and the game Fortnite. Jackson: Ah, Fortnite. The black hole for teenage attention and parental money. I know it well. Olivia: Precisely. He describes how the food court and the arcade, once the epicenters of teen social life and consumerism, have been replaced. Kids are now gathering in these virtual worlds. And here’s the kicker: they are spending real money. Not on clothes or movie tickets, but on virtual items, like a new 'skin' for their character, just to look cool in front of their friends. Jackson: It's wild. They're using real cash to buy things that don't physically exist. Olivia: And that's Gil's first major point. Consumerism isn't dead; it has just migrated. Brands are spending millions trying to get our attention on Facebook feeds, but the real action, the real community, is happening elsewhere. And in those spaces, a logo means nothing. A connection means everything. Jackson: Okay, but that's kids and video games. How does this apply to, say, a B2B software company or a local coffee shop? They can't just start a Fortnite clan. Olivia: It’s not about the platform; it’s about the psychology. The principle is universal. People crave connection and escape. They want to be part of a movement, an experience. Gil brings up the example of Kanye West's album launch for 'Ye'. Jackson: The one in Wyoming? That seemed so random. Olivia: Exactly! He didn't just drop an album. He flew a bunch of influencers and cultural figures to a ranch in Wyoming for an exclusive listening party around a bonfire. The result? Those people didn't just tweet "new album out now." They shared an unforgettable experience. They told a story. And that story created a massive wave of organic buzz that no ad campaign could ever buy. Jackson: So the product becomes secondary to the experience around it. You're not just buying music; you're buying into the mystique of the Wyoming bonfire. Olivia: You've got it. Gil’s key quote here is, "People don't buy from logos, they buy from people. People trust people." The brands that are winning are the ones that understand this. They're not just selling a product; they're fostering a community and creating advocates. They're humanizing.
From Influencers to Advocates: Humanizing Your Brand from the Inside Out
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Jackson: That makes sense. So if it's about creating movements and experiences, the obvious answer seems to be... influencers, right? Pay someone cool to be part of your movement. Olivia: Ah, and this is where Gil drops his second, and perhaps more controversial, bombshell. He argues that most influencer marketing is, in his words, "lazy and ineffective." Jackson: Hold on, that's a huge claim. It's a multi-billion dollar industry. Brands are pouring money into it. How can it be ineffective? Kim Kardashian practically built an empire on it. Olivia: And he addresses that. He differentiates between a true persona-driven brand, like a Kardashian, and a company just renting an influencer for a one-off post. He provides this stunning data point: a Walmart post about a Black Friday sale, from an account with 34 million fans, got just over 200 engagements. Jackson: Two hundred? That’s it? My aunt gets more likes on her cat photos. Olivia: I know! In contrast, a video by a comedian named Shiggy doing a dance challenge went viral and got over 7 million views. It proves that authentic, user-generated content has a power that corporate money can't replicate. People are drawn to what feels real. Jackson: Okay, that's a powerful contrast. So if paying influencers is the lazy way, what's the smart way? Olivia: The smart way is to stop looking outside and start looking inside. Gil champions the idea of turning your own employees and your most passionate customers into your brand's storytellers. He calls it building ambassadorship. Jackson: That sounds great in theory, but also terrifying for a company's legal and PR departments. You're giving up control. Olivia: You are. And that's why he says the mantra should be "tools not rules." He tells the cautionary tale of the Starbucks Unicorn Frappuccino. Jackson: Oh, I remember that! The drink that looked like a Lisa Frank folder and apparently tasted like sweet and sour regret. Olivia: That's the one. From a marketing perspective, it was a viral hit on Instagram. But behind the scenes, the baristas were miserable. The drink was complicated and messy to make. One employee, a guy named Brandon Burson, posted a video rant that went viral. He was begging customers, "For the love of God, please don't order it!" Jackson: Wow. So the brand's biggest marketing moment was being actively sabotaged by its own employee. Olivia: Exactly! It's the perfect example of a brand failing to humanize from the inside out. They created a product for the 'gram but ignored the people who had to actually make it. Now, imagine if Starbucks had used a "tools not rules" approach. What if they had empowered their baristas, made them part of the launch, and turned them into excited advocates instead of frustrated workers? Jackson: The entire narrative would have flipped. It would have been authentic stories from the inside, not a viral complaint. But again, this sounds great for a huge company like Starbucks or Walmart. What about a five-person startup? How do they create 'advocates' without a big budget or a huge team? Olivia: Gil argues it's even more critical for them. A startup's first advocates are its founders, its first few employees, and its earliest, most passionate customers. It's about personally engaging with every single person who shows interest. It’s about responding to every comment, not with a generic "Thanks!", but with a real conversation. It’s about finding that one customer who loves your product and asking them to share their story. The scale is smaller, but the principle is identical: you're building a community one human connection at a time.
Synthesis & Takeaways
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Olivia: So when you put it all together, the 'end of marketing' isn't about stopping marketing. It's about stopping the impersonal, one-way broadcast. Jackson: Right. It’s the end of the corporate megaphone. The new model is a conversation. Olivia: Exactly. Whether it's a teenager buying a virtual skin in Fortnite or an employee sharing a story on Twitter, the point of connection has shifted from the faceless logo to the individual person. The psychology is the same. We trust people we feel a connection with. Jackson: So the big takeaway here is that a brand's greatest marketing assets aren't its ad budget or its fancy logo. They're its most passionate customers and its own employees. The conversation about your brand is already happening online, with or without you. The only choice is whether you want to be a part of it. Olivia: That's the perfect summary. And for anyone listening who wants to take a first step, Gil offers a very simple, powerful piece of advice. Jackson: I'm ready. What is it? Olivia: Go to Twitter or Instagram and just search for your company's name. Not the @ mention that you track, just the name itself. See what real people are saying when they don't think you're listening. You might be surprised by the conversations you're missing. Jackson: That's a great, slightly scary, piece of homework. And we'd love to hear what you find. Share the most surprising or funniest thing you discover with the Aibrary community. Let's see what's really being said out there. Olivia: It’s about listening first, and selling last. Or maybe, not at all. Jackson: A powerful thought to end on. Olivia: This is Aibrary, signing off.