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Reality is Invented: See NEW Possibilities

Podcast by The Muse's Minute with Brian

Reality is Invented: See NEW Possibilities

Brian: What if the biggest limits you face aren't real, but just stories you've told yourself? That's the provocative idea from "The Art of Possibility" by therapist Rosamund Stone Zander and conductor Benjamin Zander. This book is a masterclass in flipping your perspective, turning constraints into creative fuel. It’s about unlocking potential you didn't even know you had, essential for any creative mind looking for a boost. Brian: The single most powerful takeaway is this: You can choose to live in what they call a "universe of possibility" instead of getting stuck in a "world of measurement." Think of it like switching eyeglasses. 'Measurement' glasses show scarcity, competition, what's lacking – like only seeing the empty part of a glass. But 'possibility' glasses reveal abundance, creativity, potential – seeing the whole glass, the water source, everything! This isn't just positive thinking; it's a fundamental shift in how you engage with everything. It frees you from constant comparison and judgment, opening up incredible space for innovation and genuine connection. It truly changes the game. Brian: So how does this work? One core practice illustrating this is realizing "It's All Invented." The Zanders argue that our reality is largely constructed by the assumptions and narratives we adopt, often without even realizing it. They tell this great story about two shoe salesmen sent to Africa. One wires back: "Situation hopeless. No one wears shoes." The other wires: "Glorious opportunity! They have no shoes!" See? Same situation, totally different invented reality based purely on perspective. It shows how our framework creates what we perceive as reality. This isn't just about shoes, it applies directly to our creative challenges. Think about facing a creative block or maybe getting a rejection. In the "world of measurement," you might think, "I'm not talented enough," or "This proves my work isn't good." That’s a dead end, right? It just shuts things down. But applying "It's All Invented" in the "universe of possibility," you ask different questions: "What assumptions am I making here?" Maybe the assumption is that failure is final, or that the first try must be perfect. By inventing a different story – like "Failure is just data," or "This rejection is a step closer, like famous authors experienced," or even "This block is an invitation to try a totally new approach" – you unlock new pathways. You shift from judging to inventing, opening up action where there was none. Brian: So, how do you step into this universe today? Try this simple practice: Catch yourself measuring, then deliberately invent a possibility. When you notice yourself comparing – your work, your progress, yourself – just pause. Ask: "What am I measuring here? What assumptions am I making?" Then, consciously ask: "What possibility could I invent instead? What might I now invent that I haven't yet invented?" Maybe instead of "My work isn't good enough," invent "What can I learn here?" or "What's one interesting aspect of this I can explore?" It’s about swapping that lens of scarcity for one of abundance. Practicing this small shift consistently can radically change how you create and connect. It's your invitation to play a bigger, more joyful game. Brian: That’s your Muse's Minute. Go find your spark!

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