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The Art of Insubordination

10 min

How to Dissent and Defy Effectively

Introduction

Narrator: Consider the case of NBA Hall of Famer Rick Barry. Throughout his career, he shot free throws underhand, a method often derided as a "granny shot." Yet, his success rate was an astonishing 90 percent, one of the best in league history. Meanwhile, superstars like Wilt Chamberlain and Shaquille O'Neal, who were notoriously poor free-throw shooters, openly refused to try the underhand method. Chamberlain tried it briefly, saw his percentage skyrocket, but quickly abandoned it because, in his own words, he felt "silly, like a sissy." He chose to be less effective rather than deviate from the norm.

This baffling sacrifice of performance for the sake of conformity is the central puzzle explored by psychologist Todd B. Kashdan in his book, The Art of Insubordination: How to Dissent and Defy Effectively. The book argues that this deep-seated human impulse to fit in is not just a quirk; it's a powerful force that stifles innovation, perpetuates injustice, and holds back progress. Kashdan provides a roadmap for those who dare to challenge the status quo, not through reckless rebellion, but through skillful, principled insubordination.

Conformity is a Powerful Default Setting

Key Insight 1

Narrator: Before one can understand how to dissent, it's crucial to grasp why conformity is such a powerful force. Kashdan explains that humans are wired to prefer the familiar and the established. We are tribal creatures who find safety in group consensus. This leads to what he calls "system justification," a fascinating and often self-defeating psychological phenomenon where people defend and rationalize the very systems that may be harming them.

Kashdan points to studies showing that even members of disadvantaged groups will often express strong support for the governments or systems that treat them unfairly. Why? Because rejecting the system entirely invites chaos, uncertainty, and the terrifying prospect of being alone. It is often psychologically easier to accept an unjust reality than to fight it. This is the "novelty penalty" in action: new ideas are inherently threatening. The story of Rick Barry's free throw isn't just about sports; it's a perfect metaphor for how the fear of social judgment can override logic and lead people to make choices that are demonstrably worse, simply to avoid standing out.

Principled Insubordination is a Skill, Not Just an Attitude

Key Insight 2

Narrator: The book makes a critical distinction: not all rebellion is created equal. Kashdan isn't celebrating contrarians who argue for the sake of arguing or who are driven by ego. He focuses on what he terms "principled insubordination." This isn't just random deviance; it's a conscious choice driven by a specific formula: deviance multiplied by authenticity and contribution.

Authenticity means the dissent comes from a place of deeply held conviction, not a desire for attention. Contribution means the ultimate goal is to create social value and improve the world, not just to tear things down. A principled insubordinate carefully considers the potential harm of their actions and remains respectful even in disagreement. They are not fighting against authority for its own sake, but are pushing for a worthy idea that benefits the larger community. This transforms rebellion from a simple act of defiance into a constructive, ethical, and ultimately more effective force for change.

Effective Dissent Requires Strategic Persuasion

Key Insight 3

Narrator: Having a great idea is not enough; a rebel must be a masterful persuader. Kashdan uses the punk band Fugazi as a prime example of principled insubordination in action. The band rejected the commercialism of the music industry, capping ticket prices at five dollars, refusing to sell merchandise, and playing all-ages shows to ensure their music was accessible. They weren't just angry; they were strategic, and in doing so, they built a fiercely loyal following and changed the culture of independent music.

From examples like this, Kashdan distills five essential principles for persuasive dissent. First, work from the inside by establishing common ground with your audience. Second, spark curiosity, not fear, by framing your message in a non-threatening way. Third, project objectivity by using verifiable facts and data. Fourth, project courageous self-sacrifice; people are more persuaded by those they see as heroic risk-takers. Finally, be flexibly consistent: hold firm on your core principles but be willing to concede on minor points to show you are reasonable.

Rebels Need Allies and Mental Armor

Key Insight 4

Narrator: Challenging the status quo is an exhausting and often lonely endeavor. Kashdan emphasizes that no rebel succeeds alone. He points to psychological studies, like one where participants estimated the steepness of a hill. Those who stood alone saw the hill as significantly steeper than those who stood with a friend. The presence of a trusted ally literally changes our perception of the challenges we face. These allies provide not just tactical support, but the emotional and psychological resources needed to persevere.

This leads to the need for mental fortitude. The story of Martha Goddard, who pioneered the modern rape kit in the 1970s, is a testament to this. She faced immense resistance from police and hospitals and even criticism from fellow feminists for accepting funding from the Playboy Foundation. Her success was born from an unshakeable belief in her mission and the psychological resilience to withstand criticism from all sides. Kashdan introduces the "Psychological Flexibility Dashboard," a tool to help rebels manage the inevitable distress, stay connected to their values, and take courageous action even when it's painful.

The Rebel's Greatest Challenge is Winning Responsibly

Key Insight 5

Narrator: Perhaps the book's most profound insight is what happens after a rebellion succeeds. Kashdan warns of the "rebel's nightmare," where the formerly oppressed become the new oppressors. Once in power, successful insubordinates are susceptible to tribalism, hypocrisy, and a blindness to their own moral failings.

The story of Evo Morales in Bolivia serves as a stark cautionary tale. Morales rose to power as a champion of the country's marginalized Indigenous community, fighting against oppression. Yet, once he became president, his government began quashing dissent, intimidating journalists, and clinging to power in ways that mirrored the very systems he had fought against. To win responsibly, Kashdan argues, former rebels must actively engage their former adversaries, practice humility, and create a culture that continues to welcome good-faith skepticism, lest they become the new orthodoxy that the next generation of rebels will have to fight.

Society Must Learn to Welcome and Extract Wisdom from Dissent

Key Insight 6

Narrator: The final part of the journey shifts the responsibility from the individual rebel to the group. For dissent to be effective, society must become better at listening. Kashdan tells the harrowing story of Cheryl Kennedy, a graduate student who became a whistleblower after discovering her prominent boss was fabricating research data. Instead of being celebrated, she was ostracized, fired based on false testimony from paid actors, and had her reputation ruined. The institution chose to protect its own image rather than heed her warning.

To avoid this, organizations and societies must create rebel-friendly cultures. This involves promoting intellectual humility, curiosity, and perspective-taking. It also means raising a new generation of insubordinates. Kashdan argues that we must teach children to spot "bullshit," to think critically, to value their own unique perspectives, and to have the bravery to act on their convictions. The story of Hannah Watters, the high school student who was suspended for posting a photo of her school's crowded, maskless hallways during the COVID-19 pandemic, shows the power of a young person who has been empowered to cause "good and necessary trouble."

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from The Art of Insubordination is that meaningful progress is never an accident. It is the direct, hard-won result of principled individuals who possess the courage to challenge what is comfortable and the skill to do so effectively. Dissent is not just a right; it is a vital engine of creativity, justice, and societal advancement—a skill that can be learned by individuals and a capacity that must be nurtured by groups.

The book leaves us with a powerful challenge that is twofold. For the potential rebel, it is a call to find the strategy and mental fortitude to accompany your convictions. But for the rest of us in the majority, the challenge is perhaps even greater: to cultivate the humility to listen to the "weirdos," the troublemakers, and the dissenters. Their outrageous ideas may feel threatening, but they might just hold the key to a better world. The question is, are we brave enough to hear them?

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