
Secrets of Divine Love
11 minA Spiritual Journey into the Heart of Islam
Introduction
Narrator: Imagine a young traveler, spiritually adrift after a decade of searching. They’ve lived in monasteries, meditated with monks, and studied ancient texts, yet their soul feels an aching emptiness. One day, in an old seventeenth-century animal barn in Cappadocia, Turkey, they see a woman praying. She isn’t just reciting words; her entire being is immersed in a conversation of pure, unadulterated love with God. The sight is so profound, so authentic, that it reignites a spark of faith within the traveler, setting them on a new path. This experience is the heart from which A. Helwa’s book, Secrets of Divine Love: A Spiritual Journey into the Heart of Islam, was born. It serves not as a textbook of religious rules, but as a guide to rediscovering the forgotten, loving core of a faith often misunderstood, inviting readers to see Islam not as a path of fear, but as an ecstatic return to divine love.
You Are an Intentional Creation of Love
Key Insight 1
Narrator: The book begins by dismantling the common feeling of being too flawed for a perfect God. Helwa argues that human worth is not earned through achievements or diminished by failures; it is intrinsic because every person is an intentional creation, deliberately fashioned by God with love. The Qur'an states, “We did not create the heavens and the earth and everything between them playfully.” This establishes that our existence is purposeful. Helwa explains that God blew His own spirit into our form, making each person a unique bridge between Heaven and Earth.
This concept is beautifully captured in a quote from the poet Rumi, who wrote, “You wander from room to room, hunting for the diamond necklace, that is already around your neck.” The spiritual journey, therefore, is not about becoming perfect to earn God's love. Instead, it is a journey of remembrance—of removing the veils of forgetfulness to recognize the divine connection that has always been there. The book introduces the Islamic concept of fitra, the innate and primordial goodness that God instilled in every human soul. Sin is not a stain on our essence but a symptom of forgetting this inner goodness. The path back to God is a path back to our truest, most authentic self.
The Obstacle is the Ego that Edges God Out
Key Insight 2
Narrator: If we are created from love and for love, why do we so often feel separate from it? Helwa identifies the primary obstacle as the ego, or nafs in Arabic. The book offers a powerful acronym for EGO: “Edging God Out.” The ego is the illusionary sense of self that arises when our eternal spirit joins with our mortal body. Helwa uses a metaphor to explain this: if the spirit is the sun and the body is wet clay, the ego is the translucent steam that rises when they meet. This steam, or fog, distorts our vision, making us feel separate from our spiritual core and from God.
The story of Adam, Eve, and Iblis (the Devil) is presented not as a simple tale of temptation, but as a profound lesson in ego. Iblis’s downfall came from his arrogant pride, his belief that he, made of fire, was superior to Adam, made of clay. In contrast, when Adam and Eve erred, they immediately took accountability and turned to God in humility. The ego, Helwa explains, thrives on pride, entitlement, and ingratitude, whereas the spirit is nourished by humility, gratitude, and remembrance. Purifying the ego is therefore a central task in the spiritual path, as it is the only way to clear the fog and witness the light of God that is always shining.
Repentance is a Journey Home
Key Insight 3
Narrator: The concept of repentance, or Tawba, is reframed from an act of shame into a joyous return. The literal meaning of Tawba is "to return." It is not about groveling before an angry God, but about turning away from the distractions of the ego and returning to our true nature, which is in alignment with the Divine. The book emphasizes that God’s mercy is so vast that our sins can become the very pathway back to Him.
To illustrate the boundless nature of God's forgiveness, Helwa recounts the famous story of the man who had killed ninety-nine people. Desperate for redemption, he sought a monk who told him he was beyond saving. In a fit of despair, the man killed the monk, bringing his total to one hundred. He then found a true scholar who told him that the door to repentance is never closed and advised him to move to a land of pious people. On the journey, the man died. Angels of mercy and angels of torment both arrived to claim his soul. They decided to measure the distance: was he closer to the land he left or the land of piety he was journeying toward? They found he was physically closer to the land of piety, and the angels of mercy took his soul. This story powerfully demonstrates that it is the sincere intention to return, the turning of the heart, that God values above all else.
The Pillars of Islam are Pathways to Divine Connection
Key Insight 4
Narrator: Secrets of Divine Love presents the five pillars of Islam not as a checklist of duties, but as profound spiritual technologies for experiencing divine love. Each pillar is a practice designed to weaken the ego and strengthen the spirit.
Salat, the ritual prayer, is a way to tune into the divine frequency. The story of Imam Ali, who was so absorbed in prayer that his companions could remove a painful arrow from his leg without him noticing, shows how prayer can help one transcend the physical world and connect to a deeper reality. Zakat, or charity, is about acting as an instrument of God's generosity. The story of Fatima Zahra, the Prophet's daughter, who gave away her new wedding gown to a beggar because the Qur'an says to "give of what you love," exemplifies that true giving is about detachment and love. Sawm, or fasting during Ramadan, is a tool for self-mastery. The parable of the monkey trap—where a monkey is caught because it refuses to let go of peanuts inside a coconut—illustrates how fasting teaches us to release the desires that imprison us. Finally, the Hajj, or pilgrimage, is a symbol of unity. The transformative experience of Malcolm X, who saw people of all races praying together as equals, shows how Hajj dissolves the superficial barriers of race and class, uniting humanity before God.
Heaven and Hell are States of Being
Key Insight 5
Narrator: The book moves beyond literal, physical descriptions of the afterlife to explore Heaven and Hell as metaphysical realities and, more importantly, as states of being that we can experience here and now. Helwa shares a timeless story to illustrate this. A man asks God to show him the difference between Heaven and Hell. In a dream, he is taken to a room where a feast is laid out. The people are starving and angry, because the spoons they have are too long to feed themselves. This, God explains, is Hell. The man is then taken to an identical room with the same feast and the same long spoons. But here, the people are joyful and well-fed because they are using the spoons to feed one another. This, God says, is Heaven.
The story reveals that Heaven and Hell are not determined by external conditions but by our internal state. Heaven is a state of generosity, connection, and love. Hell is a state of selfishness, separation, and frustration. Our actions, intentions, and the qualities we cultivate in our hearts—compassion or cruelty, unity or division—are what create our reality, both in this life and the next. God’s mercy is all-encompassing, but we choose whether to open ourselves to it or to remain trapped by our own ego.
Conclusion
Narrator: The single most important takeaway from Secrets of Divine Love is that the path of faith is not a quest to earn the love of a distant, judgmental God, but a journey of removing the internal veils that prevent us from experiencing the divine love that is already and always present. It is a return to the truth that we are, and have always been, unconditionally loved.
The book challenges its readers to re-examine their relationship with the Divine, shifting the focus from fear and obligation to love and intimacy. It leaves us with an inspiring and practical question: What if every moment of our lives, every prayer, every act of kindness, and every breath we take is an opportunity not to prove our worth, but simply to polish the mirror of our heart so that it can perfectly reflect the eternal, all-encompassing love of the Creator?