
Sacred Woman
10 minAwakening the Inner Power to Transform Your Life
Introduction
Narrator: A 29-year-old woman is told by her doctor that her ovaries are "dead" and she's entering menopause. Another, just 30 years old, is advised to have a hysterectomy for recurring fibroid tumors, threatening her dream of having more children. These are not isolated incidents. They are echoes of a silent epidemic that author and holistic health pioneer Queen Afua witnessed firsthand. She saw a generation of women, particularly African American women, suffering from a host of womb-related ailments, disconnected from their bodies and their power. This crisis prompted a profound question: What if the key to healing our bodies, our lives, and even our planet lies within the very part of us that has been most neglected and misunderstood?
In her seminal work, Sacred Woman: Awakening the Inner Power to Transform Your Life, Queen Afua provides a powerful and comprehensive answer. She argues that the path to wellness is not found in external solutions alone, but in a spiritual and physical journey back to the self, guided by the reclaimed wisdom of ancient African traditions. This book is a detailed map for that journey, a guide to transforming the wounded woman into the Sacred Woman.
The Womb is the Gateway to a Woman's Total Well-Being
Key Insight 1
Narrator: Queen Afua posits a foundational concept that resonates throughout the entire book: the state of a woman's womb is a direct reflection of the state of her life. It is not merely a reproductive organ but the gateway of all human life, a spiritual center that stores emotions, trauma, and creative potential. When this center is out of balance, it manifests as physical disease, emotional turmoil, and disharmony in relationships.
The book opens with harrowing accounts of women calling Queen Afua’s Heal Thyself Center in desperation. One story is of a 30-year-old woman facing a hysterectomy due to fibroid tumors. Having already had one child, she desperately wanted more, but her doctors saw removal of her womb as the only solution. Another woman called, suffering from such heavy bleeding and severe PMS that her relationships with her family and coworkers were in shambles. These stories, coupled with startling statistics—like the fact that African American women are 25 percent more likely to have a hysterectomy than white women—paint a picture of a deep-seated crisis. Queen Afua argues that these physical ailments are symptoms of a deeper spiritual and emotional disharmony. Healing, therefore, cannot be a simple transaction; it must be a holistic transformation that begins by honoring the womb as a sacred space.
Khamitic Philosophy Offers a Blueprint for Modern Healing
Key Insight 2
Narrator: To guide this transformation, Queen Afua turns to the ancient wisdom of Khamit, the civilization of the Nile Valley, often known as ancient Egypt. She challenges the conventional historical narrative that dismisses this tradition as a dead relic, arguing instead that it is a living philosophy with the power to heal the modern world. Central to this philosophy is the principle of Maat—a concept embodying truth, balance, harmony, and righteousness.
Unlike many Western spiritual systems that emphasize a patriarchal God, Khamitic cosmology is balanced. It honors the Mother/Father Creator, or NTR, and its divine attributes, the NTRU, which are always presented in male and female pairs like Ast and Asar (Isis and Osiris). This balance created a society where women held significant power and respect. The book details the author's own journey, feeling like a visitor in other spiritual traditions until she was initiated into the Khamitic legacy by her teacher. This personal story illustrates the profound sense of "coming home" that she believes is possible for others, especially those of African descent, whose ancestral knowledge is encoded in their very DNA. By realigning with the principles of Maat and the Forty-Two Laws of Maat—a guide for personal responsibility—individuals can restore balance within themselves and their world.
The Nine Gateways Provide a Practical Path to Transformation
Key Insight 3
Narrator: Sacred Woman is not just a philosophical text; it is a practical workbook. The core of the journey is structured around the "Nine Gateways of Initiation," a step-by-step process for cleansing and awakening the body, mind, and spirit. The journey begins with Gateway 0, The Sacred Womb, which lays the foundation by teaching women how to create a sacred altar and begin the work of womb wellness.
From there, each gateway focuses on a specific aspect of life. Gateway 1, Sacred Words, teaches the power of language to create reality, urging women to eliminate negative self-talk and embrace affirmations. Gateway 2, Sacred Foods, presents diet as a spiritual practice, advocating for a plant-based, live-food diet to purify the body. Gateway 3, Sacred Movement, emphasizes that movement is a form of prayer. Queen Afua shares a stunning personal story of being struck by a car while riding her bicycle. In that split second, an inner voice told her to "dance." She instinctively performed a swan dive over the hood of the car, landing on her feet completely unharmed. This experience solidified her belief that sacred movement can be a life-saving, transformative force that connects the physical body to the spiritual realm.
Healing Relationships Requires Sacred Sisterhood and Sacred Union
Key Insight 4
Narrator: A significant portion of the journey is dedicated to healing relationships, which Queen Afua sees as extensions of our inner world. Gateway 7, Sacred Relationships, addresses the primal mother-daughter bond and the critical need for sisterhood. The book offers a powerful model for community support through the story of "A Village of Sister-Mothers." In it, a twelve-year-old girl named Lajuana, feeling that her mother couldn't guide her through all of her adolescent challenges, approached four of her mother's friends. She asked each woman, who had a unique skill—a designer, a healer, a teacher, a store owner—to be one of her "sister-mothers." This circle provided Lajuana with diverse wisdom and relieved the pressure on her mother, healing their relationship.
Gateway 8, Sacred Union, extends this healing to romantic partnerships. Queen Afua is uncompromising in her stance that a Sacred Woman requires a committed partner. She advises a period of celibacy as a powerful tool for self-rejuvenation and purification, allowing a woman to heal and attract a partner who is aligned with her highest self. The book draws on traditional Afrakan courtship practices, like the story of the author’s father courting her mother for five years under family supervision, to illustrate the value of patience, commitment, and community involvement in building a lasting, sacred partnership.
The Sacred Lotus Initiation is a Rebirth into Divine Power
Key Insight 5
Narrator: The journey culminates in Gateway 9, Nefer Atum: The Sacred Lotus Initiation. The lotus flower, which grows from the mud to blossom in pristine beauty, is the ultimate symbol of spiritual illumination and resurrection. This final gateway is about achieving oneness with the Creator and being reborn into one's full divine power.
To illustrate the depth of this initiation, Queen Afua recounts her own pilgrimage to Khamit. During a visit to the temple of Kom Ombo, she and her fellow priestesses were drawn to a "Wailing Wall," a place where the ancients went to release their pain. Overcome with emotion, Queen Afua began to wail, not just for herself, but for the collective suffering of her people through the Maafa, the African holocaust of enslavement. Her sisters joined her, and together they released generations of trauma, emptying their spiritual cups so they could be refilled with the harmony of Maat. This experience was a profound rebirth, severing the spiritual chains of the past and allowing her to fully embody the power of a Sacred Woman. It is this level of profound, ancestral healing that the final gateway offers.
Conclusion
Narrator: Ultimately, Sacred Woman delivers a singular, powerful message: true healing is a revolutionary act of self-reclamation. Queen Afua teaches that a woman's power is not something to be acquired, but something to be remembered and awakened. The journey she outlines is an intricate process of purification—of the body through food and movement, of the mind through sacred words, and of the spirit through ritual and ancestral connection. It begins in the most intimate and sacred space, the womb, and radiates outward to heal our relationships, our communities, and our world.
The book leaves its readers with a profound and practical challenge. It asks us to look at our own lives and ask: What would it mean to treat my body as a temple? What would it take to transform my home into a sacred space and my relationships into sacred unions? By embarking on this journey, Queen Afua insists, we do more than just heal ourselves; we reclaim a legacy of divine power and become the healers our planet so desperately needs.