
Rare Breed
9 minA Guide to Success for the Defiant, Dangerous, and Different
Introduction
Narrator: Imagine starting a business with just $250, in a town dominated by old-school, established players. Two young women, Sunny Bonnell and Ashleigh Hansberger, did just that. To get noticed, they didn't buy a traditional ad; they designed a direct mailer that looked like a miniature metal garbage can. When recipients lifted the lid, the message inside read, "Trash the Ordinary." This bold, unconventional move was met with curiosity and intrigue, landing them their first client and launching their branding agency, Motto. It was a move that defied every piece of advice they’d been given to conform, to tone it down, and to play by the rules.
This very spirit of defiant creativity is at the heart of their book, Rare Breed: A Guide to Success for the Defiant, Dangerous, and Different. Bonnell and Hansberger propose a radical idea: what if the very traits society labels as vices—being rebellious, audacious, obsessive, or weird—are actually the superpowers needed for extraordinary success? The book is a manual for those who have always felt different, challenging them to stop suppressing their unique qualities and start harnessing them as their greatest assets.
The Rebellious Spirit Moves the World Forward
Key Insight 1
Narrator: The book argues that progress is rarely born from obedience. It is born from rebellion. Society often conditions people to conform, to follow rules, and to not challenge authority. But Bonnell and Hansberger assert that this conditioning stifles the very spirit required for innovation and change. They reframe rebellion not as aimless defiance, but as a virtue—the engine of progress.
They point to historical figures like Harriet Tubman, who embodied this virtue. Born into slavery, Tubman had two choices: liberty or death. She chose to rebel. After escaping to freedom, she didn't stop. Driven by a profound sense of justice, she returned to the South again and again, guiding hundreds of enslaved people to freedom through the Underground Railroad. Her rebellion was not for personal gain; it was a righteous fight against a corrupt and immoral system. As Oscar Wilde once wrote, "Disobedience, in the eyes of anyone who has read history, is man’s original virtue." The authors argue that rebels like Tubman, who challenge outdated systems and fight for a better world, are the ones who truly move humanity forward.
Audacity Defies Conventional Wisdom
Key Insight 2
Narrator: Beyond rebellion, a Rare Breed possesses audacity—a powerful mix of nerve, radical vision, and unshakable self-confidence. Audacious individuals don't just break the rules; they rewrite them entirely. They see possibilities where others see only boundaries.
A compelling example of this is Kevin Kelley, a high school football coach in Arkansas. For decades, the conventional wisdom in football has been to punt the ball on fourth down to avoid giving the opponent good field position. Kelley, however, questioned this dogma. After analyzing statistical studies, he concluded that the risk of giving up the ball was outweighed by the potential reward of keeping a drive alive. He implemented a radical "never punt" strategy. His team goes for it on every fourth down, no matter where they are on the field. This audacious approach was initially met with ridicule from other coaches, but the results speak for themselves. Kelley’s team has won multiple state championships, and his strategy has been recognized as one of the most significant innovations in the sport. He had the audacity to ignore conventional wisdom, trust the data, and forge a new path to victory.
Obsession is the Engine of Mastery
Key Insight 3
Narrator: In a world that often praises balance, Rare Breed makes a case for the power of obsession. The authors distinguish between destructive obsession and the kind that fuels greatness—a relentless, uncompromising pursuit of perfection driven by purpose and love for one's craft. This is the virtue that transforms talent into genius.
The book highlights Jiro Ono, the world-renowned sushi chef featured in the documentary Jiro Dreams of Sushi. His obsession with perfection is legendary. Apprentices in his restaurant must spend years on a single task before being allowed to progress. For example, they might spend nearly an hour massaging a single octopus to achieve the perfect texture. This isn't just about technique; it's about an obsessive dedication to the art form. This level of focus, which seems extreme to outsiders, is what elevates his work from merely good to transcendent. Bonnell and Hansberger argue that this kind of healthy obsession, when tied to a meaningful purpose, is not a flaw but a requirement for reaching the highest levels of any field.
Weirdness is a Competitive Advantage
Key Insight 4
Narrator: In a marketplace saturated with sameness, being weird is a strategic advantage. The book encourages readers to unpack their "box of weird"—the unique quirks, eccentricities, and unconventional ideas they may have suppressed to fit in. When embraced, these qualities can become the foundation of a truly memorable brand or career.
Consider the story of Johnny Cupcakes, a T-shirt brand founded by Johnny Earle. Instead of opening a standard clothing store, Earle leaned into a weird and wonderful concept: a T-shirt bakery. His retail stores are designed to look and smell like old-fashioned bakeries. T-shirts are displayed in refrigerators and ovens, and purchases are packaged in pastry boxes. This playful juxtaposition of clothing and baked goods is entirely unexpected. It creates a unique, memorable experience that has helped Johnny Cupcakes build a cult-like following and a multimillion-dollar brand without traditional advertising. By mixing cupcakes with crossbones, Earle proved that embracing a weird idea can be the most direct path to standing out and creating a loyal community.
Emotional Fire Forges Connection and Resilience
Key Insight 5
Narrator: The final virtues explored in the book center on emotion. Qualities like being hot-blooded, passionate, and sensitive are often framed as weaknesses in the professional world, suggesting a lack of control. Rare Breed argues the opposite: emotion is a powerful fuel for creativity, leadership, and resilience.
The authors point to Beyoncé's groundbreaking 2016 visual album, Lemonade. The album was a raw, visceral exploration of the pain and anger of infidelity. Instead of suppressing these intense emotions, Beyoncé channeled them into a work of art. She transformed her personal rage and betrayal into a universal story of hurt, healing, and empowerment. The result was not only a commercial and critical masterpiece but also a cultural touchstone that resonated deeply with millions. This act of turning pain into power exemplifies the Rare Breed approach. It demonstrates that leading with emotion and vulnerability doesn't make you weak; it makes you relatable, authentic, and capable of creating work that truly connects with the human experience.
Conclusion
Narrator: The single most important takeaway from Rare Breed is that authentic success is not about conforming to a predefined mold, but about courageously owning every part of who you are. The book is a powerful declaration that your perceived flaws, your eccentricities, and your defiant spirit are not liabilities to be hidden, but superpowers to be unleashed. As the authors quote from Allen Ginsberg, "We’re not our skin of grime . . . we’re golden sunflowers inside."
Ultimately, Rare Breed is more than just a business book; it's a call to action for anyone who has ever felt like an outsider. Its most challenging idea is that simply possessing these virtues isn't enough. The real test is what you do with them. So, the question it leaves is not if you are a Rare Breed, but how will you use your unique, defiant, and dangerous qualities to make your mark on the world?