
My Name Is Barbra
10 minIntroduction
Narrator: At nineteen, a young actress on the verge of a Broadway breakthrough was described by a critic as an "amiable anteater." This was just the beginning of a long line of bizarre, often cruel, animal comparisons—a "furious hamster," a "myopic gazelle," a "seasick ferret." Decades later, a respected cinematographer would be told by his doctor friend not to work with her, calling her an impossible "bitch" based on nothing more than a magazine article. The cinematographer, who had worked with her multiple times, knew the truth was the opposite, but the doctor refused to believe him, trusting the printed word over a firsthand account. For over sixty years, a narrative has been built around one of the most iconic figures in entertainment, a narrative of myths, fabrications, and caricatures. In her long-awaited autobiography, My Name Is Barbra, Barbra Streisand finally picks up the pen to dismantle that narrative, presenting a meticulous, deeply personal, and definitive account of her own life, driven by a singular, powerful motive: to tell the truth.
The Battle Between Public Perception and Private Truth
Key Insight 1
Narrator: From the very beginning of her career, Barbra Streisand was confronted with a chasm between who she was and how the public perceived her. The media and critics fixated on her unconventional looks, particularly her nose, which one writer famously declared "a shrine." This intense scrutiny created a public persona that often felt alien to her. The "amiable anteater" review was an early, painful lesson in how her appearance could be twisted and defined by others. This battle for her own identity became a central theme of her life. She recounts numerous stories of fabricated media reports, from a magazine falsely claiming she bought an expensive, high-tech bathtub to a man in a supermarket congratulating her and her husband for getting "back together," even though they had never separated.
This constant distortion is what fueled her decision to write the book. She expresses a deep-seated fear, stating, "I’m scared that after six decades of people making up stories about me, I’m going to tell the truth, and nobody is going to believe it." The autobiography is her attempt to correct the record, to peel back the layers of myth and present the unvarnished facts of her life. It is an act of reclamation, driven by an obligation to those genuinely interested in the person behind the legendary voice and the work that defined generations.
Forged in an Absence of Truth
Key Insight 2
Narrator: Streisand’s lifelong obsession with facts and truth is rooted in a childhood marked by their absence. Her father, Emanuel Streisand, a brilliant scholar and teacher, died when she was just fifteen months old, leaving a profound void. Her mother, Diana, rarely spoke of him, explaining years later, "I didn’t want you to miss him." This silence left Barbra feeling disconnected from a crucial part of her identity. The more significant betrayal, however, came when she was eight. Her mother pulled her from a summer camp she hated, but instead of going home, they drove to a new apartment with a strange man. It was only much later that she learned this man was her new stepfather, Louis Kind, and that her mother was pregnant.
Her mother’s justification—"Well, you never asked"—was a defining moment, cementing Streisand’s belief that "lying by omission counts as lying too." This experience, coupled with the cold and dismissive nature of her stepfather, who once called her ugly, forged in her a fierce independence and a deep-seated resolve to fight her own battles and never compromise her self-worth for anyone’s approval.
An Unconventional Ascent Fueled by Instinct
Key Insight 3
Narrator: Streisand’s path to stardom was anything but conventional. Her passion for acting was ignited at fourteen after seeing The Diary of Anne Frank on Broadway. She felt an immediate connection, thinking, "She’s Jewish; I’m Jewish. Why couldn’t I play the part?" This ambition was not supported by formal training in the traditional sense. Her first and only singing lesson ended abruptly when the coach tried to make her pronounce a word in a way that felt unnatural; she trusted her own instincts instead.
This reliance on instinct defined her early career. She developed a unique style, sourcing vintage clothes from thrift shops not as a gimmick, but because it was what she could afford and what felt authentic to her. Her breakthrough came from winning a talent contest that led to an engagement at the Bon Soir nightclub. There, she approached singing not as a vocalist, but as an actress, treating each song as a three-act play. This unconventional approach, combining her raw vocal power with deep emotional interpretation, captivated audiences and set her apart, proving that her unique, unpolished authenticity was her greatest asset.
The Uncompromising Fight for Creative Control
Key Insight 4
Narrator: As her fame grew, Streisand quickly learned that she had to fight for her artistic vision. During her first Broadway show, I Can Get It for You Wholesale, she clashed with the director, Arthur Laurents, over her big number, "Miss Marmelstein." Laurents wanted a highly choreographed performance, but Streisand felt the character’s awkwardness and pain would be best conveyed while sitting in an office chair, just as she had in her audition. The conflict became so intense that on opening night, Laurents viciously told her, "You’re never going to make it... You’re too undisciplined!" But Streisand held her ground. She performed the song in the chair, and it stopped the show.
This battle for control became a hallmark of her career. When creating her album People, the record company’s art department wanted a conventional close-up for the cover. Streisand, however, insisted on a more mysterious, out-of-focus shot of her from behind, looking out at the sunrise. She had to invoke the creative control clause in her contract to get her way. The album went on to win a Grammy for Best Album Cover, vindicating her instincts and reinforcing her belief in the importance of maintaining control over her own work.
The Director's Chair and a Father's Legacy
Key Insight 5
Narrator: For fifteen years, Streisand fought to bring the story of Yentl the Yeshiva Boy to the screen. The project was deeply personal, resonating with her own thirst for knowledge and her desire to honor her father, the scholar she never knew. The journey was fraught with resistance. Studio executives were hesitant to back a "Jewish movie" and balked at the idea of a woman directing, producing, co-writing, and starring in a film. The project stalled for years, passing through the hands of different writers and directors.
A spiritual experience solidified her resolve. After visiting her father’s grave for the first time, she discovered that the tombstone next to his bore the name "Anshel"—the male name Yentl adopts in the story. She took this as a sign. Finally, she decided to direct the film herself. The experience was a culmination of everything she had learned. She faced down sexism and doubt, winning the Golden Globe for Best Director—the first and only woman to have done so at the time. In dedicating the film to her father, she not only created a timeless story about a woman’s right to learn but also forged a connection with the parent whose absence had shaped her entire life.
Conclusion
Narrator: My Name Is Barbra is far more than a chronicle of a legendary career; it is a meticulous, 900-page testament to the power of holding on to one's own truth. The book's most critical takeaway is that Barbra Streisand's life has been a relentless pursuit of authenticity in a world that constantly tried to define her. From her unconventional looks and her unwavering artistic vision to her refusal to be anything other than herself, she fought for the right to control her own narrative.
The book leaves us with a profound challenge. It forces us to look at the stories told about us—and the stories we tell ourselves—and to ask how much of that narrative is truly our own. Streisand’s journey is a powerful reminder that the most courageous act can be to simply, and finally, speak for yourself, in your own voice, and on your own terms.