
My Morning Routine
9 minHow Successful People Start Every Day Inspired
Introduction
Narrator: Imagine waking up in a panic. The alarm has been snoozed one too many times, and the day already feels lost. The first move is to grab the phone, where a flood of emails and notifications immediately injects stress and reactivity into the morning. This was the daily reality for Benjamin Spall and Michael Xander, a cycle of chaotic mornings that led to fluctuating moods and unproductive days. They felt trapped, starting each day on the back foot. This personal struggle sparked a question: Is there a better way? What if the first hour of the day wasn't a frantic rush, but a deliberate, calming, and empowering ritual?
Their search for an answer led them to interview hundreds of the world's most successful people, from artists and entrepreneurs to generals and Olympic athletes. The discoveries they made are compiled in the book My Morning Routine: How Successful People Start Every Day Inspired. It reveals that for the best and brightest, a great day doesn't happen by accident; it is intentionally designed, beginning with the very first moments after waking up.
The Routine is Personal, Not Prescriptive
Key Insight 1
Narrator: A common misconception is that a "successful" morning routine involves waking up before dawn to run a marathon and write a novel before anyone else has had coffee. The book quickly dismantles this myth. The core principle is not about when you wake up, but how you use the time you have. It is about intentionality, not a specific timetable.
The authors emphasize that there is no one-size-fits-all formula. The goal is to craft a routine that makes an individual feel awake, alert, and motivated, and this looks different for everyone. For example, author Benjamin Spall is an early riser, but his wife is a night owl. A rigid, early-morning routine would create conflict. Instead, they adapted, highlighting the need for flexibility. The routine must serve the person, not the other way around. Political columnist Ana Marie Cox offers a powerful reminder on this point, stating that a morning routine should be undertaken to do something good for oneself, not to meet some stranger’s standard of productivity. The most effective routine is the one that is deeply personal and aligns with one's own values and circumstances.
Protect the Morning for Deep, Meaningful Work
Key Insight 2
Narrator: The early hours of the day offer a unique window of opportunity. Before the deluge of meetings, emails, and external demands, there exists a quiet space for focused, creative, and deep work. Many of the successful individuals featured in the book instinctively protect this time for their most important projects.
Author Ryan Holiday, for instance, follows a simple but transformative rule: do one significant thing in the morning before checking email. For him, this means dedicating one to two hours to writing. By accomplishing his most important task first, he starts the day with a "win," which allows the rest of the day to feel more flexible and less pressured. Similarly, Shane Parrish, founder of Farnam Street, avoids email first thing because he realized it allows others to dictate his priorities. Instead, he dedicates sixty to ninety minutes of uninterrupted time to his most difficult problems. This strategy, echoed by many others, leverages the brain's peak energy and focus in the morning, preventing the day from being consumed by reactive, shallow tasks.
Movement and Mindfulness are Foundational Pillars
Key Insight 3
Narrator: Across a wide variety of routines, two components appear consistently: physical movement and some form of mindfulness. These are not just add-ons but foundational pillars that support both physical and mental well-being.
General Stanley McChrystal, a retired U.S. Army four-star general, has maintained a workout routine for nearly forty years. He wakes at 4:00 A.M. and alternates between running and weight training. He emphasizes that consistency is paramount, stating, "If you make it hard to work out you won’t do it." His story shows how a commitment to physical activity can be adapted over decades and across different environments, from home to deployment in Iraq.
Mindfulness, too, takes many forms beyond formal meditation. The book shows how it can be woven into everyday activities. Behavioral investigator Vanessa Van Edwards finds her meditative moment in the ritual of hand-grinding tea leaves, focusing on the sensory experience. For others, it’s the mindful preparation of coffee or even a commute. The goal is to find moments of presence and calm, which helps to reduce stress and improve focus for the rest of the day.
A Great Morning Begins the Night Before
Key Insight 4
Narrator: The book makes a compelling case that a successful morning routine is impossible without a well-planned evening routine and, most importantly, adequate sleep. The two are inextricably linked. How one ends the day directly determines how one will begin the next.
Arianna Huffington, founder of Thrive Global, learned this lesson the hard way. In 2007, running on fumes and severe sleep deprivation, she fainted at her desk, breaking her cheekbone. This dramatic event was her "wake-up call" to the non-negotiable importance of rest. She now treats her transition to sleep as a sacrosanct ritual, turning off all electronic devices, taking a hot bath, and ensuring she gets eight hours of sleep. Many others in the book follow similar principles, such as creating a to-do list for the next day to clear the mind, laying out clothes to reduce decision fatigue, and avoiding screens before bed. This preparation ensures that the morning can be a time of calm action, not frantic decision-making.
Routines Must Bend, Not Break
Key Insight 5
Narrator: Life is unpredictable. Children get sick, travel disrupts schedules, and motivation wanes. A rigid routine is a fragile one, destined to shatter under pressure. The most resilient and sustainable routines are those built with flexibility in mind.
This is especially true for parents. Biz Stone, a cofounder of Twitter, has a morning routine that is almost entirely dictated by his young son, Jake. His day starts when Jake wakes him up, and the first hour is dedicated to playing Legos or Minecraft. For Stone, this playtime is a form of meditation and a joyful way to connect with his family. He has adapted his routine to prioritize what matters most, rather than forcing a pre-packaged ideal. The book advises that when disruptions happen, it's not a failure. Instead, it's an opportunity to adapt, to focus on the most essential pillars of the routine, and to give oneself grace. As author Crystal Paine notes, "life happens and it’s okay if we don’t always do everything we’d hoped or planned to do."
Conclusion
Narrator: The single most important takeaway from My Morning Routine is that crafting a morning routine is not about becoming a hyper-efficient productivity machine. It is a profound act of self-care. It is about intentionally carving out time for oneself to set a positive, calm, and focused tone for the day before the world rushes in with its own demands. It is about starting the day with an accomplishment, no matter how small, that is entirely your own.
The book's ultimate challenge is not to copy the routine of a CEO or an artist, but to become a curious scientist of your own life. It encourages you to experiment, to observe what energizes you and what drains you, and to build a routine, one small habit at a time, that is uniquely yours. The most powerful question it leaves us with is this: What is the one small, intentional act you could do tomorrow morning, just for yourself, to make the day a little bit better?