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Keep It Moving

10 min

Lessons for the Rest of Your Life

Introduction

Narrator: Imagine one of the greatest ballet dancers of the 20th century, a man at the absolute peak of his physical powers, looking morose in a coffee shop. This was Mikhail Baryshnikov in his prime, just 27 years old. When his choreographer asked him what was wrong, he didn't complain about the work or his health. Instead, he confessed a deep-seated fear, saying, "soon we will be old." This anxiety—that time is a thief and aging is a decline—is a universal human story. But what if this story is wrong? What if the real enemy isn't the passage of time, but the refusal to move with it?

In her book, Keep It Moving: Lessons for the Rest of Your Life, legendary choreographer Twyla Tharp dismantles this fear. She argues that a long, fulfilling life is not about preserving youth but about embracing movement, change, and continuous growth. It’s a powerful guide to maintaining vitality by treating life itself as a dance.

Redefine the Enemy: It’s Stagnation, Not Age

Key Insight 1

Narrator: Tharp’s central argument is a radical reframing of aging. She declares, “Age is not the enemy. Stagnation is the enemy. Complacency is the enemy. Stasis is the enemy.” Society often teaches us to fear getting older, to see it as a process of inevitable contraction and loss. Tharp rejects this entirely. For her, the real threat is standing still, clinging to a past self, or allowing our world to shrink.

She illustrates this with the inspiring story of master cellist Pablo Casals. When asked at age 91 why he still practiced the cello for hours every day, his answer was simple and profound: “Because I am making progress.” This mindset embodies the core of Tharp’s philosophy. Progress, not perfection, is the goal. Vitality comes from the forward momentum of learning, improving, and evolving, regardless of one's age. To keep moving is to actively fight stagnation, which is the true source of decay.

Choose Your Life: The Power of a Pledge Over a Goal

Key Insight 2

Narrator: Many people let life happen to them, passively accepting the path of least resistance. Tharp insists that a vibrant life is a chosen one, built on conscious decisions and commitments. She distinguishes between a goal and a pledge. A goal is a finish line, something you can achieve and check off a list, like marathon swimmer Diana Nyad successfully swimming from Cuba to Florida. While an incredible achievement, it was a goal that, once completed, was done.

A pledge, however, is a guiding principle—a continuous, lifelong striving that shapes your identity. Tharp shares her own story from 1962, when as a college student she stood at a crossroads between a stable career in art history and a risky, passionate life in dance. In that moment, she made a choice that became her pledge: to dedicate her life to movement and creation. This wasn't a goal with an endpoint; it was a commitment that has guided every subsequent decision. A pledge is about the process, not the prize, and it is revealed over time through the consistent choices one makes.

Your Body Is Your Job: Integrating Movement into Life

Key Insight 3

Narrator: As a choreographer, Tharp’s philosophy is rooted in the physical. She argues that caring for one’s body is not a hobby or a chore but a fundamental responsibility—a job. She points out that our culture often creates a false divide between the mind and the body, valuing intellectual pursuits over physical ones. Tharp urges readers to dissolve this boundary.

She highlights entrepreneur Richard Branson, who credits his daily 5 a.m. exercise routine—whether it's tennis, biking, or kitesurfing—with doubling his productivity. The point isn't just to burn calories, but to use them purposefully. Exercise should be connected to acquiring skills, enhancing well-being, and building the energy needed to pursue one's pledge. By integrating physical activity into the fabric of daily life, we honor the fact that our body is the primary vehicle through which we experience the world and execute our ambitions.

Make Change a Habit: Letting Go of the Past to Move Forward

Key Insight 4

Narrator: To keep moving, one must be willing to let go. Tharp warns that the past can act as an anchor, holding us back with nostalgia, old habits, and outdated identities. To combat this, she suggests making change itself a habit. One powerful technique is to adopt different personas to explore new possibilities without being tied to a fixed self-image.

She points to the Japanese artist Hokusai, who used over thirty different names during his long and prolific career. Each name change represented a new phase of his artistic exploration, allowing him to constantly reinvent himself and his work. By refusing to be defined by his past successes, like his iconic "Great Wave" print, Hokusai remained a dynamic and evolving artist until his death at nearly ninety. This practice of shedding old skins is essential for growth, freeing us to be whoever we need to be in the present moment.

The Art of the Bounce Back: Turning Setbacks into Stepping Stones

Key Insight 5

Narrator: Setbacks are an inevitable part of any ambitious life. The key is not to avoid them but to master the art of the "bounce back." Tharp emphasizes that resilience is a skill that can be learned and practiced. It begins with overcoming the self-doubt of imposter syndrome and reframing failure as a source of valuable information.

A prime example of this is George Foreman’s legendary comeback. In 1974, he lost the heavyweight title to Muhammad Ali. Twenty years later, at age 45, he was considered a massive underdog against the much younger champion, Michael Moorer. For ten rounds, Foreman absorbed punishment but never lost his focus. He had a plan, he persevered, and in the tenth round, he delivered a knockout punch, becoming the oldest heavyweight champion in history. Foreman didn't let his past defeat define him. Instead, he learned, adapted, and built a bridge from his past failure to a future triumph. This, Tharp argues, is the essence of bouncing back: using the force of a blow to propel yourself forward.

Stronger for the Mending: Trading Immortality for Gravitas

Key Insight 6

Narrator: Sooner or later, everyone confronts the limits of their physical body. Tharp calls this the moment the "illusion of immortality" shatters. For her, it was a cracked metatarsal at age sixty-nine. This moment, she argues, offers a profound opportunity for a "swap": we trade the fantasy of being invincible for the very real emotional power of gravitas—a grounded wisdom and strength forged by experience.

This idea is beautifully captured in the Japanese art of kintsugi, where broken pottery is repaired with seams of gold. Instead of hiding the cracks, the repair highlights them, making the object more beautiful and valuable for having been broken. The mending becomes part of its story. Tharp connects this to the experience of neuroanatomist Jill Bolte Taylor, who suffered a massive stroke. In the process of an eight-year recovery, Taylor not only relearned how to walk and talk but gained a profound new perspective, finding deep peace and joy in the present moment. Like a piece of kintsugi pottery, she emerged not just healed, but stronger and more beautiful for the mending.

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from Keep It Moving is that life is defined by action, not by age. Tharp’s ultimate advice is a powerful call to engagement, encapsulated in the title of her final chapter: "Shut Up and Dance." This isn't just a literal command; it's a metaphor for choosing active participation over passive observation, for embracing movement in all its forms—physically, intellectually, and emotionally.

The book leaves us with a striking final image of this philosophy in action. A few weeks before his death, the frail author Maurice Sendak, leaning on two canes, saw Tharp off on an icy day. As she drove away, he lifted one cane, anchored himself with the other, and performed a small, defiant jig. In that moment, he chose to dance. The question Tharp leaves for us is a simple but profound one: in life, will you choose to shuffle along carefully, or will you choose to dance?

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