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Joyful

12 min

The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness

Introduction

Narrator: Imagine a city drained of life. In the year 2000, Tirana, the capital of Albania, was exactly that. Decades of repressive dictatorship had left it broken, a landscape of crumbling gray concrete, corruption, and despair. Garbage piled up in the streets, and its citizens were demoralized. But then, its newly elected mayor, an artist named Edi Rama, did something unexpected. With an empty treasury and no resources for conventional urban renewal, he picked up a paintbrush. He commissioned painters to cover a building in a shocking, vibrant orange. Then another in lime green and lemon yellow. Soon, the entire city was erupting in audacious color. And a strange thing happened. People stopped littering. They started paying taxes again. Cafés reopened, and a sense of hope returned. How could something as simple as color bring a city back from the dead?

This question is at the heart of Ingrid Fetell Lee's book, Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness. Lee argues that we’ve been taught to believe joy is a purely internal state, a result of mindset and introspection alone. But she reveals that this is only half the story. Joy can be found and, more importantly, made in the physical world around us. Through her research, she identified ten distinct "aesthetics of joy"—tangible patterns and properties that reliably create positive feelings.

Joy Has Physical Energy

Key Insight 1

Narrator: The conventional wisdom that joy comes only from within is incomplete. Lee argues that our physical environment is a powerful and overlooked source of positive emotion. Two of the most fundamental aesthetics she identifies are Energy and Abundance. The aesthetic of Energy is found in vibrant color and light. This isn't just a matter of preference; it's rooted in our evolution. Our ancestors' color vision evolved to spot ripe, energy-rich fruits and edible leaves against a green background. This is why we still feel a primal sense of delight when we see bright, saturated hues.

The story of Tirana is a powerful testament to this. Mayor Edi Rama didn't just paint buildings; he injected life back into the city. The vibrant colors disrupted the bleakness, which in turn changed citizens' behavior. Tax revenue increased sixfold, allowing for real infrastructure projects. As one resident said, "Even a blind person can bear witness to the utter change of Tirana." Similarly, the nonprofit Publicolor has transformed hundreds of underfunded New York City schools. By replacing drab, prison-like corridors with strategic, vibrant colors, they found that graffiti disappeared, attendance improved, and students reported feeling safer. Joy, it turns out, can be painted onto a wall.

The aesthetic of Abundance taps into a similar primal instinct. For our ancestors, who lived with scarcity, a sudden windfall of resources—a tree heavy with fruit, a large herd of animals—was a moment of profound security and joy. This is why we still feel a thrill in places of lushness and multiplicity. Think of the feeling of being a kid in a candy store, surrounded by overflowing bins of color and variety, or the maximalist designs of decorator Dorothy Draper, who famously filled the Greenbrier resort with clashing patterns, bold stripes, and rich textures. This aesthetic isn't about materialism; it's about sensory richness. It’s the joy of "more than enough," a feeling of security and delight that calms our ancient anxieties.

Joy is Found in Freedom and Play

Key Insight 2

Narrator: Joy often feels like a release from constraint, and our environment can either confine us or set us free. The aesthetic of Freedom is most powerfully found in nature and open spaces. Humans have a universal preference for landscapes that offer both "prospect and refuge"—a wide, open view combined with a safe place from which to see it. This is why a home with a view of the ocean or a city park like the High Line in New York feels so liberating. The High Line, a park built on a derelict elevated railway, is a perfect example. It was once a decaying eyesore, but landscape architect James Corner preserved its wild, self-seeded gardens, creating an urban oasis that offers a sense of escape and wildness above the city streets.

Closely related to Freedom is the aesthetic of Play, which is often triggered by round, soft, and bubbly forms. Our brains are wired to perceive sharp, angular objects as potential threats, which is why we feel more at ease in rooms with curved furniture or buildings with rounded corners. The architect Antti Lovag took this idea to its extreme with his "Bubble Palace" in France, a home made entirely of interconnected spheres. He believed that the straight line is an "aggression against nature" and that living in circular, womblike spaces promotes a more playful, creative, and humane existence. From the simple joy of bubbles to the whimsical design of a Volkswagen Beetle, roundness signals safety, fun, and a release from the rigid, angular world.

Joy Thrives on Harmony and Surprise

Key Insight 3

Narrator: While they may seem like opposites, the aesthetics of Harmony and Surprise work together to create a dynamic experience of joy. Harmony—found in symmetry, order, and rhythm—creates a sense of calm and coherence that is deeply pleasing to the human brain. Our minds are pattern-seeking machines, and when we perceive order, it reduces cognitive load and creates a feeling of ease. This is the quiet satisfaction of a perfectly made bed, the visual delight of the "Things Organized Neatly" blog, or the mesmerizing precision of the Rockettes' kick line. Order creates a baseline of stability.

But on its own, perfect order can become monotonous. This is where the aesthetic of Surprise comes in. Surprise works by breaking the patterns that harmony establishes. It jolts us out of our routines and focuses our attention, amplifying our emotional response. A small, unexpected moment of delight can completely shift our perspective. This is the power of "yarn bombing," a movement where guerrilla knitters wrap public objects like parking meters and statues in colorful, soft cozies. The contrast between the hard, industrial object and the warm, handmade covering creates a moment of whimsical surprise that brings a smile to passersby. By first establishing order, we create the perfect canvas for a joyful surprise.

Joy Connects Us Through Celebration and Transcendence

Key Insight 4

Narrator: Joy is not just a personal feeling; it's a deeply social one that binds communities together. The aesthetic of Celebration is about creating shared moments of effusive joy. Lee points out that celebratory elements often involve bursting shapes and sparkle—think of fireworks, confetti, and starbursts. These shapes mimic the physical expression of joy, like throwing one's arms open wide. Oversize objects, like the giant balloons created by the company Geronimo Balloons, also signal celebration. These massive, joyful installations are often placed in public, turning a private celebration "inside out" and sharing the joy with the entire community. This act of sharing doesn't diminish the joy; it amplifies it for everyone.

The aesthetic of Transcendence, meanwhile, connects us to something larger than ourselves. It's the feeling of awe we get from looking up at a vast, starry sky or from a high vantage point. This is why we build skyscrapers with observation decks and why children instinctively want to build treehouses. These elevated spaces give us a new perspective, making our own problems seem smaller. The Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta is a perfect example. As hundreds of massive, colorful balloons lift off at sunrise, they create a shared experience of wonder and lightness. For a moment, thousands of people are united, looking up, feeling a sense of awe that transcends the everyday.

Joy is Cyclical and Can Be Renewed

Key Insight 5

Narrator: In our modern, linear view of time, a setback can feel like a permanent failure. But Lee reminds us that joy, like nature, is cyclical. The aesthetic of Renewal is about finding hope in the rhythms of life, growth, and rebirth. The most powerful symbol of this is the flower. Flowers signal the future promise of fruit and abundance, which is why they evoke such deep, positive feelings.

The Japanese tradition of hanami, or cherry blossom viewing, perfectly captures this aesthetic. For a brief period each spring, the entire country erupts in celebration as the sakura trees bloom. It's a time of immense public joy, but it is deeply poignant because everyone knows the beauty is fleeting. The blossoms will soon fall. Yet, this transience doesn't cause sadness; it deepens the appreciation for the present moment. It serves as a powerful reminder that even after a harsh winter—or a personal hardship—renewal is always possible. The blossoms will return next year. This aesthetic teaches us to trust in the cycles of life and to know that even when joy fades, it has the power to bloom again.

Conclusion

Narrator: Ultimately, Joyful delivers a powerful and liberating message: joy is not a frivolous emotion, but an essential part of a thriving life, and it is far more accessible than we think. Ingrid Fetell Lee's greatest contribution is to give us a practical language—the ten aesthetics—to see and create joy in our own lives. The book's most important takeaway is that we are not passive recipients of our circumstances. We are all, as the philosopher John O'Donohue said, artists involved in the construction of our world.

The challenge Lee leaves us with is to stop seeing our surroundings as a neutral backdrop and start viewing them as an active tool for well-being. Look around you right now. What in your environment is bringing you joy, and what is draining it? By learning to identify the aesthetics of joy, you can begin to make small, intentional changes that can lead to a profoundly more joyful life.

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