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If You’re Not First, You’re Last

11 min

Sales Strategies to Dominate Your Market and Beat Your Competition

Introduction

Narrator: Imagine the ground beneath your feet suddenly starts to shake violently. Buildings sway, the power goes out, and the normal, predictable world is thrown into chaos. In those first few seconds, most people freeze, paralyzed by shock and fear. They retreat, hoping the shaking stops. But a select few, those who have prepared, immediately take specific, decisive actions to ensure their survival. An economic contraction, the book argues, is just like that earthquake. It’s a violent, unannounced shift that paralyzes the unprepared. While most businesses retreat, cut back, and hope for the best, a few see it as the ultimate opportunity to advance and conquer.

This is the core premise of Grant Cardone's "If You’re Not First, You’re Last: Sales Strategies to Dominate Your Market and Beat Your Competition." The book is a playbook for not just surviving but thriving when the economy turns sour. It argues that in business, second place is a vulnerable position, and the only safe place to be is at the very top.

Adopt the 'Advance and Conquer' Mindset

Key Insight 1

Narrator: The book’s central philosophy is that during an economic downturn, there are four ways to respond, but only one leads to victory. The "Cheerleader" denies reality with blind positivity. The "Old-School" manager retreats to basics that are no longer sufficient. The "Quitter" gives up and waits for the storm to pass. But the winner adopts the fourth response: Advance and Conquer. This means using the chaos and fear of a downturn as fuel. While competitors are contracting, cutting budgets, and laying off staff, the conqueror expands, invests, and aggressively attacks the market to seize share.

Cardone argues that being number one in your market isn't just about ego; it's about survival and prosperity. He points to the stark difference between Intel and its competitor, Advanced Micro, during the 2009 downturn. Intel, in the first position, earned over $32 billion in revenue and held $13 billion in cash. Advanced Micro, in second place, earned just under $5 billion with only $2.5 billion in cash. The rewards for being first aren't just slightly better; they are exponentially greater. In a crisis, that financial cushion allows the market leader to invest, innovate, and swallow up the competition, while everyone else is just trying to stay afloat.

Your Network is Your Lifeline

Key Insight 2

Narrator: When a crisis hits and traditional advertising becomes a money pit, the first and most powerful move is to reactivate your existing networks. Cardone identifies two critical groups: your personal power base and your past clients. Your power base includes everyone you already know—friends, family, former colleagues, and neighbors. These are people who already know and trust you. The book points out that entire industries, like multilevel marketing, are built on this single principle. Instead of spending a fortune on cold advertising, you can generate immediate business by simply reconnecting with people who are already inclined to support you.

Similarly, past clients are a goldmine of opportunity. Many businesses make a sale and then forget the customer, which is a massive mistake. Cardone tells a story of his own firm, which sells long-term training contracts. When the economy tightened, they didn't wait for clients to cancel. They proactively called clients who had six months left on their contracts and offered to roll the remaining balance into a new, upgraded contract. This often lowered the client's monthly payment while securing future revenue for Cardone's company. It was a win-win created not by finding new customers, but by serving existing ones in a new way.

The Unreasonable Power of Personal Contact and Persistence

Key Insight 3

Narrator: In a world of emails and automated marketing, the most effective and feared sales tool is the personal visit. Cardone claims that one face-to-face visit is more powerful than ten phone calls. He built his own seminar business by doing what others were unwilling to do: making unannounced "cold" visits to potential clients. It was uncomfortable and effort-intensive, but it built a level of trust and confidence that no other method could. This "unreasonable" action is what separates the dominant player from the rest of the pack.

This persistence must also apply to follow-up. The book cites a study showing that 80% of sales are made on the fifth call, yet only 10% of salespeople ever call more than three times. Most people give up far too early. Cardone shares a story of a prospect he called twice a year for ten years without getting any business. It seemed like a lost cause. But on the tenth year, the prospect finally signed on, resulting in one of the biggest contracts of Cardone's career. The lesson is clear: your interest in the client must be greater than their initial interest in you. Persistence, even when it feels unreasonable, is what converts unsold leads into loyal customers.

Value Trumps Price, and Service Creates 'Wow'

Key Insight 4

Narrator: When sales slow down, the first instinct for most businesses is to lower their prices. Cardone argues this is a fatal mistake. Selling on price is a sign of weakness; it shows a lack of confidence in your product and your ability to sell it. He tells the story of a car dealer who was so obsessed with beating a competitor's price that he failed to build any real value in the car itself. The customer, unconvinced, ended up using the $40,000 not on a car, but on a kitchen renovation—a completely unrelated "competitor." Money doesn't follow the lowest price; it follows perceived value.

Instead of discounting, the goal should be to deliver a "wow" experience. This has little to do with price and everything to do with service. As a young salesman, Cardone was meeting a prospect on a hot day. When the man asked for a Diet Coke, Cardone didn't just grab a can. He returned with the drink on a silver platter, complete with a glass of ice, a glass without ice, and straws, asking the client exactly how he'd like it. The client was so impressed by this small, unexpected gesture of service that he bought the product without any discount and became a loyal customer for years. You can't advertise "wow"; you can only deliver it.

Repackage and Upsell to Maximize Every Opportunity

Key Insight 5

Narrator: In a tough economy, clients' needs and budgets change. The key is not to abandon them, but to adapt your offerings. If a client can no longer afford your flagship $5,000 service, don't just walk away. Repackage your expertise. Offer a $500 critique of their own work or a smaller, no-frills version of your product. During one downturn, Cardone's company found that clients were hesitant to pay for flights and hotels to attend their training school. So, they repackaged the offering by bundling the cost of travel directly into the price of their seminars. This removed the client's perceived barrier and kept the school full.

Furthermore, the book stresses that the second sale is always easier than the first. Once a customer has committed to a purchase, they are psychologically primed to add more. A furniture salesperson who has just sold a living room set should immediately suggest the perfect rug and lamps to complete the look. An advertising salesperson who has just closed a deal should suggest adding a press release to maximize the campaign's impact. This isn't about being pushy; it's about serving the client fully and maximizing the value of every single interaction.

The Unreasonable Attitude is Your Ultimate Weapon

Key Insight 6

Narrator: Ultimately, all these strategies require a fundamental shift in mindset. To dominate, you must adopt what Cardone calls an "unreasonable attitude." Reasonable people adapt themselves to the world; unreasonable people persist in trying to adapt the world to themselves. Therefore, all progress depends on unreasonable people. In a crisis, the rule-breakers, the noisemakers, and the attention-getters are the ones who thrive.

This requires an unwavering belief in your product and your own ability to sell it. The book uses the tragic story of Vincent Van Gogh as a cautionary tale. He was an artistic genius who produced masterpieces, yet he sold only one painting in his lifetime. Why? Because he couldn't sell. Talent, a great product, or a brilliant idea is useless without the skill to convince others of its value. Selling, Cardone concludes, is the single most important skill for any business or individual. It is not an expense; it is the one investment that connects you to the money you need to survive, advance, and conquer.

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from "If You’re Not First, You’re Last" is that the economy is not something that happens to you; it is something you create. Waiting, retreating, and being "reasonable" are recipes for becoming a statistic of the downturn. True success comes from taking massive, proactive, and often unconventional action to build your own financial reality, regardless of the external climate.

The book challenges us to look at our own actions and ask a difficult question: Are we playing not to lose, or are we playing to win? In a world that encourages us to be sensible, Cardone's most enduring message is that perhaps the most sensible thing you can do in a crisis is to become completely and utterly unreasonable in the pursuit of your goals.

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