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How to Write One Song

10 min

Loving the Things We Create and How They Love Us Back

Introduction

Narrator: In the late 1990s, after his band Wilco had poured their energy into completing the album Summerteeth, Jeff Tweedy presented the finished work to his record label. He considered it a complete artistic statement. The executives, however, had a different view. They listened and delivered a verdict that would unnerve any artist: they didn't hear a single. They needed a hit, something commercially viable, and they needed it now. Faced with this demand, Tweedy did what many might do under pressure: he lied. He told them he had just the song they were looking for, even though it didn't exist. On the flight to Los Angeles, driven by necessity rather than a lightning bolt of inspiration, he wrote the song "Can't Stand It." This experience crystallized a fundamental truth about creativity: it isn't always a mystical gift from the heavens. Sometimes, it's a response to a demand, a product of work, and a process that can be learned.

This very idea is the foundation of Tweedy’s book, How to Write One Song. It serves as a generous and practical guide that dismantles the romantic myths surrounding songwriting. Tweedy argues that the goal isn't to become a prolific genius overnight, but to learn how to give oneself the permission and the tools to create a single song, and in doing so, to find a profound connection to the act of creation itself.

Embrace the Process, Not the Persona

Key Insight 1

Narrator: One of the most significant obstacles in any creative endeavor is the pressure to adopt an identity. Tweedy argues that it is "soul-crushing... to aspire to BE something versus being driven by what you want to DO." The desire to be a "songwriter" or an "artist" often paralyzes people, as they focus on an abstract, fixed identity rather than the dynamic, rewarding process of actually making something. The real fulfillment, he suggests, comes from the action—the doing, the creating, the process of bringing something new into the world.

This principle is beautifully illustrated by a story from Tweedy's own childhood about his father. His dad was a high school dropout who worked for the Alton & Southern Railway his entire life. He was not, by any conventional measure, an artist. Yet, he had an impulse to create. When he was upset or stewing over something, he would retreat to the basement and write poetry. These weren't sophisticated works; they were simple, rhyming poems about the railway, neighbors, or whatever was on his mind. He would then come upstairs and recite them to his family.

For Tweedy, watching his father step outside his "so-called station in life" to indulge in a moment of pure creation was a powerful lesson. His father wasn't trying to be a poet; he was simply driven by the need to express himself, to connect his inner world with the outer one through words. This embodies the book's central message: the impulse to create is a fundamental human desire for connection, and giving oneself permission to act on that impulse, regardless of skill or status, is the first and most important step.

Treat Words as Musical Building Blocks

Key Insight 2

Narrator: When asked the classic question, "Which comes first, the music or the lyrics?" Tweedy offers a liberating answer: "Both and neither." He encourages aspiring songwriters to stop seeing words and music as separate entities that must be forced together. Instead, he posits that words themselves possess an inherent music. The goal of a songwriter is to learn to hear it.

To achieve this, Tweedy offers a series of exercises designed to "hot-wire" language, breaking us out of our habitual, utilitarian ways of communicating. These exercises are not about finding the perfect, meaningful phrase, but about playing with language as a raw material, like clay or paint. One of the most effective is the "Word Ladder." The process is simple: create two columns of ten words. The first is a list of verbs associated with a specific profession, like a physician—words such as examine, thump, prescribe, listen, scan, heal. The second is a list of ten random nouns from your immediate field of vision—cushion, guitar, wall, sunlight, carpet, drum.

The next step is to connect these words in unconventional ways, forcing them into new relationships. This might yield a strange, evocative poem like: "the drum is waiting by the window listening where the sunlight writes on the cushions prescribed thump the microphone the guitar is healing." The result isn't a finished lyric, but it jump-starts the brain, making language feel new and full of surprising potential. It trains the ear to hear the rhythm and sound of words, allowing melodies and meanings to emerge from unexpected combinations rather than from a desperate search for inspiration.

Cultivate Creativity Through Constraints and "Theft"

Key Insight 3

Narrator: The myth of the ideal creative moment—a long, uninterrupted stretch of quiet time with inspiration flowing freely—is one of the biggest barriers to getting work done. Tweedy argues for a more pragmatic approach, one that embraces constraints and even a bit of larceny. He tells a story of being on tour, stuck in a hotel room with just twenty minutes before he had to leave for the venue. Instead of seeing the limited time as a reason not to start, he saw it as a challenge.

He set a timer on his phone for twenty minutes and gave himself one task: write a finished song in that time. The pressure of the clock forced him to bypass his internal editor and work quickly and intuitively. The result was the song "You and I," a piece that made it onto a record and became a fan favorite. This experience taught him that constraints are not the enemy of creativity; they are often its most powerful catalyst. A short, defined period of work is almost always more productive than waiting for the perfect, open-ended day.

Equally provocative is his recommendation to "steal." Tweedy is quick to point out that all art is built on what came before. "Everyone who you could possibly steal from at this point in human evolution is a thief," he writes. He encourages writers to learn other people's songs, to borrow chord progressions, to take a melodic idea and make it their own. This isn't about plagiarism but about influence and apprenticeship. By using another artist's work as a starting point, a writer can bypass the terror of the blank page and find a foothold to begin their own creative climb.

Discover the Song That Already Exists

Key Insight 4

Narrator: Perhaps the most profound shift in perspective Tweedy offers is the idea that songwriting is less an act of invention and more an act of discovery. He compares the process to the work of Inuit carvers. A carver, he explains, doesn't look at a piece of stone or a walrus tusk and decide to impose the shape of a seal upon it. Instead, they study the material, turning it over and over, and begin to carve away, believing that the essence of the seal was already inside. Their job is simply to reveal it.

In songwriting, the melody is the stone. The mumbles, the nonsense syllables, the half-formed phrases sung over a chord progression are the first chips of the chisel. The songwriter's job is to listen closely to those sounds and "carve" toward the words they suggest, to discover the meaning that is already latent within the music. This reframes "writer's block" not as an inability to create, but as a failure to listen.

This philosophy centers the value of the creative act itself, regardless of the outcome. Tweedy recounts a story from his time in a mental hospital, where he witnessed a woman in an art therapy class who had been catatonic for days. She was given a pencil and paper and drew a simple, unrefined picture of herself. When she held it up, she began to cry and spoke for the first time, saying she couldn't remember the last time she'd held a pencil. In that moment, the quality of the drawing was irrelevant. The transformative power was in the act of creation—of making something that wasn't there before. That, Tweedy argues, is the ultimate reward.

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from How to Write One Song is a simple but radical redefinition of the goal. The objective is not to write songs, plural, with all the attendant pressure of building a catalogue or a career. The objective is to lose yourself completely in the process of making one song. It is within that focused, immersive state—where time disappears and the ego fades—that the real magic happens. This is where we connect with ourselves, where we discover hidden truths, and where we find a joy that is independent of external validation.

Ultimately, the book's challenge extends far beyond music. It is a universal invitation to reclaim our innate, childlike ability to create without judgment. It asks us to stop waiting for inspiration or permission and to simply begin. What is the one poem, the one drawing, the one idea you've been waiting to bring to life? The book's quiet, powerful message is that the act of starting is a victory in itself, and the love you find in the process will, in turn, love you back.

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