Aibrary Logo
Podcast thumbnail

How to Make Your Own Luck

9 min

The Science of Becoming Lucky

Introduction

Narrator: What if the biggest break of your life came not from a brilliant audition, but from a job you took just to pay the bills? In the 1970s, a young, struggling actor named Harrison Ford did just that. Unable to land meaningful roles, he turned to carpentry to support his family. One of his clients was an up-and-coming director named George Lucas, who hired Ford to build cabinets. During that time, Lucas was also casting for a small science-fiction film. Impressed by Ford's presence and work ethic, Lucas asked him to read lines with other actors auditioning for the film. That "temporary" gig led to Ford being cast as Han Solo in Star Wars, a role that launched him into international stardom. Was this just a one-in-a-million stroke of luck? Or is there a hidden science to being in the right place at the right time? In their book, How to Make Your Own Luck, authors Janice Kaplan and Barnaby Marsh dismantle the myth of random fortune, arguing that luck is not something that simply happens to us, but a skill we can actively cultivate.

Luck is an Equation, Not a Lottery Ticket

Key Insight 1

Narrator: The foundational argument of the book is that luck is not a mystical, random force. Instead, it is a predictable outcome that can be understood through a simple formula: Luck equals Chance plus Talent plus Hard Work. While chance represents the random events we cannot control, the other two variables—talent and hard work—are entirely within our power to influence.

Kaplan and Marsh broaden the definition of "talent" beyond innate ability to include learnable skills like openness to opportunity, creative thinking, and optimism. Hard work is the engine that drives it all—the preparation, the action, and the persistence required to put yourself in a position where chance can work in your favor.

The authors illustrate this with a personal story. On a trip from New York City, Kaplan arrived at the train station early. Seeing an earlier train scheduled to depart, she decided to make a run for it, despite the odds. She navigated a crowded station, found an alternate route when an escalator was going the wrong way, and sprinted to the platform, making it just as the doors closed. Later that day, after sharing her story with a waitress, she was given a free cupcake. These two small events felt like luck, but they were a direct result of her actions. She had the knowledge of the train schedule (preparation), she saw the opportunity (talent for openness), and she took decisive action (hard work). This demonstrates that by actively managing the elements we can control, we can significantly increase the probability of a "lucky" outcome.

Position Yourself Where the Puck Will Be

Key Insight 2

Narrator: Legendary hockey player Wayne Gretzky famously explained his success by saying, "I skate to where the puck is going to be, not where it has been." Kaplan and Marsh apply this wisdom to life, arguing that a critical component of luck is proactively positioning yourself in environments ripe with opportunity.

This often means moving away from the familiar and comfortable. Consider the story of Charlize Theron. After a traumatic childhood in South Africa, she moved to Los Angeles to pursue an acting career. When her dreams stalled, her mother encouraged her to stay. One day, in a moment of desperation, she had a loud, dramatic argument with a bank teller who refused to cash a check. A talent agent standing in line witnessed the outburst, was captivated by her raw emotion, and handed her his card. This encounter launched her career. Had she stayed in South Africa or even a different American city, that specific opportunity would never have existed.

Similarly, when Mark Zuckerberg started Facebook at Harvard, he knew the company's potential was limited by its environment. He moved the fledgling operation to Palo Alto for a summer, immersing himself in the epicenter of the tech world. There, he connected with key figures like Sean Parker and Peter Thiel, securing the crucial first investment that allowed Facebook to scale. In both cases, the individuals didn't wait for luck to find them; they went to the place where luck was most likely to be.

Harness the Power of Weak Ties

Key Insight 3

Narrator: While we often rely on our close friends and family (strong ties) for support, the book argues that the greatest opportunities for luck come from our extended network of acquaintances, or "weak ties." This is because our close circle often shares the same information and social spheres, while weak ties act as bridges to entirely new worlds of knowledge and opportunity.

A powerful modern example is the story of Sree Sreenivasan, who was laid off from his job as the Chief Digital Officer at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Instead of searching in private, he announced his situation publicly on Facebook and invited his network to "walk and talk" with him. The post went viral, resulting in over 1,300 people offering help and suggestions. The crucial connection came from an unexpected place: a member of an Upper East Side book club saw his story, and her husband, who worked for the city, made an introduction. Within a month, Sreenivasan was hired as the Chief Digital Officer for the City of New York—a bigger and more impactful role. His willingness to be open and activate his vast network of weak ties created the conditions for this lucky break.

Zig When Others Zag

Key Insight 4

Narrator: In a world where most people follow a well-trodden path, creating extraordinary luck often requires a willingness to think and act differently. The book champions the idea of "zigging when others zag"—deviating from the norm to discover overlooked opportunities.

This principle is perfectly embodied by the story of Dick Fosbury. In the 1960s, high jumpers used conventional techniques like the straddle or scissors kick. Fosbury, an unremarkable athlete, couldn't master them. Instead of quitting, he experimented, developing a completely new technique: going over the bar backward and headfirst. Coaches and critics called it bizarre and dangerous. Yet, in 1968, he used his unconventional "Fosbury Flop" to win an Olympic gold medal. His willingness to defy convention not only brought him personal success but permanently revolutionized the sport.

The same logic applies in business. Mike Darnell, a former Fox television executive, built his career by green-lighting shows that other networks deemed too risky or bizarre, from When Animals Attack! to American Idol. By intentionally seeking out the path no one else was on, he avoided competition and created massive hits. Both Fosbury and Darnell demonstrate that luck often favors the bold and the original.

Cultivate a Lucky Personality Through Persistence and Passion

Key Insight 5

Narrator: Luck isn't just about external factors; it's also about internal mindset. The book argues that a "lucky personality" is built on the twin pillars of persistence and passion. Passion provides the "why"—the deep, intrinsic motivation to pursue a goal. Persistence provides the "how"—the grit and resilience to keep going, especially in the face of failure.

The publishing world is filled with stories of persistence. J.K. Rowling’s Harry Potter was rejected by twelve publishers, and John Grisham’s first novel was rejected by twenty-eight. Their eventual success wasn't just luck; it was a direct result of their refusal to give up. Bob Mankoff, the long-time cartoon editor for The New Yorker, submitted over 500 cartoons before the magazine finally accepted one. He didn't just repeat his efforts; he used each rejection to refine his style, demonstrating focused persistence.

This mindset is fueled by optimism—the belief that you can, in fact, create a positive future. As positive psychology pioneer Martin Seligman explains in the book, optimistic people are better equipped to capitalize on good events and are less bogged down by bad ones. This belief becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, encouraging the very actions that lead to lucky outcomes.

Conclusion

Narrator: Ultimately, How to Make Your Own Luck delivers a powerful and liberating message: luck is not a passive destiny but an active choice. The book's most critical takeaway is the shift in perspective it demands—from waiting for good fortune to happen to you, to making it happen for you. It reframes luck as a set of skills that can be learned, practiced, and mastered.

The book challenges us to stop seeing ourselves as victims of circumstance and to start acting as architects of our own fortune. It leaves the reader with a practical and profound question: What one action can you take today—not tomorrow, but today—to put yourself on the path to the luck you want to create?

00:00/00:00