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Everything Is Figureoutable

11 min

Introduction

Narrator: Imagine a small, cheap, plastic radio shaped like a Tropicana orange. One day, it stops working. For most people, this is its final act—a quick trip to the trash can. But for one woman, a broken radio wasn't an end; it was a puzzle. With no manual and no training, she took it apart, piece by piece, tinkering and testing until she found the problem and fixed it. When her young daughter asked how she knew what to do, she replied with a simple, life-altering philosophy: "Nothing in life is that complicated. You can do whatever you set your mind to... Everything is figureoutable."

This simple phrase, born from a mother's resourcefulness, is the central thesis of Marie Forleo's book, Everything Is Figureoutable. Forleo argues that this isn't just a catchy slogan but a powerful, actionable belief system that can transform how we approach every obstacle, from the trivial to the seemingly insurmountable. It’s a mental discipline that, once adopted, unlocks a level of creativity, resilience, and achievement that most people believe is beyond their reach.

Beliefs Are the Hidden Scripts That Run Your Life

Key Insight 1

Narrator: At the heart of Forleo's philosophy is a fundamental truth: our beliefs are not just passive thoughts; they are the active architects of our reality. They shape our feelings, drive our behaviors, and ultimately determine our results. Forleo presents beliefs as hidden scripts that run in the background of our minds, dictating what we perceive as possible or impossible.

A powerful illustration of this comes from the work of Marva Collins, a teacher in Chicago who took on students the public school system had labeled "unteachable." These children had internalized the belief that they were broken or incapable. But Collins operated from a different belief system. She instilled in her students an unwavering conviction in their own brilliance. She didn't just teach them subjects; she taught them to believe in their own capacity to learn. The results were staggering. A student named Erica, once labeled "borderline retarded," went on to graduate from university. Collins proved that when you change a core belief, you change everything. Forleo argues that the most powerful belief one can adopt is that "Everything is Figureoutable," because it opens the mind to solutions instead of shutting it down with limitations.

Excuses Are Lies That Limit Your Potential

Key Insight 2

Narrator: According to Forleo, the biggest barriers to our dreams are not external circumstances but the internal excuses we use to justify inaction. She challenges readers to recognize that the phrase "I can't" is almost always a euphemism for "I won't." It signals an unwillingness to pay the price, whether that price is time, effort, or comfort. The most common excuses—"I don't have time," "I don't have the money," and "I don't know how"—are all figureoutable problems.

The story of Dr. Tererai Trent serves as a profound rebuttal to these excuses. Born in rural Zimbabwe, married off for a cow at age eleven, and a mother of four by eighteen, Trent faced unimaginable poverty and abuse. Yet, her dream of getting an education burned brightly. Inspired by an aid worker, she wrote her dreams on a piece of paper and buried them under a rock. She had no time, no money, and no formal education. But she refused to make excuses. For years, she taught herself to read and write, worked with aid organizations, and saved every penny. Eventually, she earned a spot at Oklahoma State University, moved to the US with her children, and endured immense hardship to earn her BA, MA, and finally, her PhD. Dr. Trent’s journey demonstrates that resourcefulness, not resources, is the true key to success. By taking 100% responsibility for her life, she proved that even the most extreme circumstances cannot stop a person who refuses to be limited by excuses.

Fear Is a Compass, Not a Stop Sign

Key Insight 3

Narrator: Forleo asserts that fear is a natural and unavoidable part of pursuing anything meaningful. The real enemy isn't fear itself, but waiting to stop feeling afraid before we act. In fact, she reframes fear as a directive—a signpost pointing directly toward what our soul most needs to do for its growth. The more scared we are of a calling, the more certain we can be that we have to pursue it.

To manage this, Forleo advocates for making fear tangible. Instead of letting a vague sense of dread paralyze us, we should articulate the absolute worst-case scenario. What if we fail? By defining the potential failure, planning how we could recover, and realizing that most outcomes are not as catastrophic as they feel, we diminish fear’s power. Forleo shares a personal story of crashing a scooter on a Sicilian island. After panicking and wiping out, her first instinct was to give up. But she recognized that a fall is only final if you stay on the ground. She chose to get back on, learn slowly, and face the fear directly. By taking action, however small, she transformed fear into competence and embarrassment into enjoyment. Action is the ultimate antidote to fear.

Clarity Comes from Engagement, Not Thought

Key Insight 4

Narrator: While defining a dream is a critical first step, Forleo warns against the trap of trying to think your way to a perfect plan. Ambiguity is the enemy of accomplishment, but clarity is not born from endless contemplation; it is born from engagement. We discover what we truly want and how to get there by doing, experimenting, and getting real-world feedback.

Forleo learned this lesson firsthand in her mid-twenties. Feeling lost in her career, she decided to take a beginner's dance class, despite having no training and feeling terrified. In the middle of the class, surrounded by more experienced dancers, she was so overwhelmed with a mix of fear and exhilaration that she burst into tears. In that moment of action, she found a clarity that months of thinking could never have provided. She realized she was meant to move. This experience became a guiding principle: you don't need to have it all figured out to start. In fact, you can't have it all figured out until you start. Taking that first, imperfect step is what illuminates the path forward.

Progress, Not Perfection, Is the Engine of Achievement

Key Insight 5

Narrator: Perfectionism, Forleo argues, is one of the most insidious forms of self-sabotage. It’s not about having high standards; it’s a shield built from the fear of judgment and failure. It keeps us from starting, from finishing, and from sharing our work with the world. The solution is to adopt the mantra: "Progress, not perfection."

Forleo shares a cringeworthy story of her very first workshop. Eager to teach, she created handmade workbooks and held the event in a friend's basement. The total attendance was five people: her friend, two neighbors, and her parents. She felt pathetic and embarrassed. Yet, in retrospect, that "sucky" start was a monumental victory. It was progress. It taught her that starting small and imperfect is infinitely better than staying stuck in the pursuit of an unattainable ideal. This mindset shift—from seeking a flawless outcome to celebrating forward movement—is what allows for learning, growth, and the compounding momentum that leads to mastery.

Refuse to Be Refused by Connecting Your Dream to a Greater Purpose

Key Insight 6

Narrator: Persistence is a key ingredient for success, but what fuels it? Forleo argues that the most powerful motivation comes from connecting your dream to a purpose beyond personal gain. When your mission is to serve others, to solve a problem for your community, or to contribute your unique gift to the world, you unlock a deeper well of resilience.

This principle is powerfully embodied in the story of Leymah Gbowee and the Liberian Mass Action for Peace. During a brutal civil war, Gbowee united thousands of Christian and Muslim women to demand peace. They faced down warlords and a corrupt government, staging nonviolent protests day after day. They refused to be refused because their purpose was not personal; it was for the survival of their children and their nation. Their unshakable commitment, fueled by a purpose larger than themselves, ultimately helped end the war and earned Gbowee a Nobel Peace Prize. This demonstrates that when you refuse to give up, not just for yourself but for others, you become an unstoppable force for change.

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from Everything Is Figureoutable is that our ability to solve problems is not a fixed trait but a mindset that can be consciously chosen and cultivated. It is the belief that no matter the obstacle—be it financial hardship, a terrifying diagnosis, a creative block, or a societal injustice—a path forward exists. This belief doesn't eliminate challenges, but it fundamentally changes our relationship to them, transforming us from passive victims of circumstance into active, resourceful creators of our own lives.

The book leaves us with a powerful challenge. Consider the one problem in your life that you've labeled "impossible" or "unsolvable." What if that label is a choice, not a fact? What if, as Forleo insists, it is truly figureoutable? The real question then becomes: what is the next, single, right move you can take to begin figuring it out?

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