
Doaa Al Zamel
11 minFrom Refugee to Hope
Introduction
Narrator: Imagine being adrift in the vast, churning Mediterranean Sea. For four days, you've been floating, clinging to a small inflatable ring, the only solid thing in a world of water and sky. The sun burns your skin, thirst is a constant torment, and all around you are the ghosts of those who didn't make it. You are nineteen years old, and you are not alone. In your arms, you hold two small children, infants entrusted to you by their dying parents. Their survival depends entirely on you, a young woman who can't even swim. This is not a hypothetical scenario; it was the reality for Doaa Al Zamel. Her harrowing story of survival is at the heart of Melissa Fleming's book, Doaa Al Zamel: From Refugee to Hope, which chronicles an unbelievable journey from a peaceful childhood in Syria to the epicenter of a human catastrophe.
A Life Before the Storm
Key Insight 1
Narrator: Before the war, Doaa Al Zamel’s world was defined by her close-knit family in Daraa, Syria. It was a life of tradition, but one that Doaa, with her fiercely independent spirit, often pushed against. From a young age, her mother would say with a mix of pride and exasperation, "No one can ever tell Doaa what to do." This stubborn streak fueled her dream of becoming a policewoman, a desire to serve her country and build her own life, which clashed with her father's more traditional expectations.
Life was not without its hardships. The family lived under the oppressive Al-Assad regime, and economic struggles were a constant reality. At one point, Doaa's father, Shokri, was desperate to earn extra money to move his family out of their crowded home. He took a job transporting cookies across the border to Jordan, only to be arrested and imprisoned for four months on trumped-up charges. The family was thrown into crisis, and it was only through bribery and community connections that they secured his release. This experience was an early lesson in the vulnerability of ordinary citizens and the corruption that festered just beneath the surface of their society. It was a peace that was fragile, a stability that was about to be shattered.
The Spark of Revolution
Key Insight 2
Narrator: In 2011, the winds of the Arab Spring reached Syria, carrying with them a dangerous hope. In Doaa's hometown of Daraa, this hope found its voice in a simple act of defiance. A group of schoolboys, inspired by the uprisings in Tunisia and Egypt, spray-painted on a wall, "Ejak Al Door ya Duktur"—"You're next, Doctor," a direct taunt to President Bashar al-Assad. The regime's response was swift and brutal. The boys were arrested and tortured. When their parents pleaded for their release, a local official, Assad's cousin, reportedly mocked them, telling them to forget their children and have new ones.
This monstrous insult was the spark that lit the fire. Protests erupted across Daraa. Doaa, once a shy girl, was transformed. On Mother's Day, she insisted her family follow their tradition of visiting her grandparents' graves, a journey that took them through the heart of the protests. From a rooftop, she witnessed security forces firing live ammunition into a crowd of peaceful demonstrators. The sight horrified her, shattering her belief in the country she loved. She was no longer a bystander. Doaa began actively participating, and in one chaotic moment when security forces raided a protest, an organizer shoved a loudspeaker and a drum into her arms, begging her to hide them. Without hesitation, Doaa concealed them under her abaya and ran, narrowly escaping capture. Her father, terrified for her safety, forbade her from attending more protests, but it was too late. The revolution had claimed her heart.
From Home to Exile
Key Insight 3
Narrator: The protests quickly escalated into a full-blown war. The Syrian army laid siege to Daraa, trapping Doaa and her family in their home. They endured shortages of food and water, constant power cuts, and terrifying house-to-house searches by soldiers. The city that was once their home became a war zone. The final blow came when Shokri's barbershop, his life's work and the family's only source of income, was destroyed by missiles. His spirit was broken. With their city in ruins and the constant threat of violence and kidnapping, the family made the agonizing decision to flee.
Their escape to Egypt in 2012 was a journey fraught with peril, navigating checkpoints and corrupt officials. Doaa felt as if she were leaving her soul behind, whispering, "I envy the mountains and the trees and the rocks because they will be able to breathe Daraa’s air and I won’t." Initially, Egypt offered a fragile peace. Under President Morsi's government, Syrian refugees were welcomed. An Egyptian customs official waved their baggage fees, saying, "You are coming from war and suffering. Syria and Egypt are bound together like family." But this sanctuary would not last.
Love and Hate in a Foreign Land
Key Insight 4
Narrator: In Egypt, Doaa met Bassem, another Syrian refugee who had been a fighter with the Free Syrian Army and had endured imprisonment and torture. He was immediately captivated by Doaa's strength and fell deeply in love. Doaa, however, was focused on her family and her dream of returning to a free Syria. She repeatedly rejected his proposals, telling her family, "I cannot love him, and, anyway, I don’t want to get married outside of Syria."
Their personal drama played out against a backdrop of political upheaval. When the military ousted President Morsi, the tide of public opinion turned viciously against Syrian refugees. They were scapegoated, accused of being terrorists and Morsi supporters. The warm welcome turned into open hostility. Doaa's younger siblings were bullied at school, and one day a man on a moped shouted a chilling threat: any Syrian children sent to Egyptian schools would be "returned back to you cut into pieces." The danger became terrifyingly personal when a young man on a motorcycle harassed Doaa on the street, leading to a violent confrontation where Bassem was attacked by a group armed with sticks and a knife. The refuge had become a trap. It was in this climate of fear and despair that Doaa, seeing Bassem's unwavering devotion and realizing they had no future in Egypt, finally agreed to marry him.
The Deal with the Devil
Key Insight 5
Narrator: With no hope in Egypt and no home to return to in Syria, Bassem saw only one path forward: Europe. He pleaded with Doaa to make the perilous journey across the sea with him. Doaa was terrified. A near-drowning incident as a child had left her with a deep fear of water, and she knew the stories of the smugglers' boats, often called "death boats." But Bassem was persistent, painting a picture of a future where they could be safe, build a life, and help their families.
Doaa's choice was stark: stay in a country that hated them, let Bassem go to Europe alone, or face her deepest fear and go with him. She chose Bassem. They sold everything they had, including Doaa's engagement ring, to pay the smugglers thousands of dollars. Their journey was a descent into a nightmare of exploitation. Their first two attempts to leave ended in chaos, with the couple being shot at by coastguards, chased by thugs, and imprisoned in deplorable conditions. Yet, their desperation was so profound that they decided to try a third time. Doaa’s feeling of dread was overwhelming. As they were herded onto a decrepit fishing trawler, she whispered to Bassem, "I feel like we are being taken to our deaths."
All That Is Left Is the Sea
Key Insight 6
Narrator: The fishing trawler was dangerously overcrowded with around 500 refugees. For four days, they were at sea. Then, another boat approached. The men on board were not rescuers; they were smugglers, possibly a rival gang. They demanded the passengers transfer to their boat. When the refugees refused, the men began shouting insults, calling them "dogs." Then, they deliberately rammed their boat into the trawler. It sank in minutes.
The sea became a scene of mass death. Hundreds of people, including children, drowned around Doaa. Bassem, a strong swimmer, found an inflatable ring and put Doaa in it. He tried to help others, but the sea was too powerful. After a day, weakened and exhausted, he began to lose consciousness. His last words to Doaa were, "If I die, all I want is for you to be happy." Then he slipped away. Doaa was alone, but not for long. A man swam to her, holding his nine-month-old granddaughter, Malak. He begged Doaa to save her, then drowned. Hours later, a mother did the same, entrusting her eighteen-month-old daughter, Masa, to Doaa before she too was lost to the waves. For two more days, Doaa floated, keeping the two babies alive, singing to them and giving them hope. On the fourth day, on the brink of death, they were spotted by a merchant ship, the CPO Japan. It was a rescue at the dying hour, a one-in-a-million chance.
Conclusion
Narrator: Doaa Al Zamel survived. She was rescued and taken to Greece, and eventually resettled in Sweden. But her story is more than one of incredible survival. It is a testament to the power of hope and the profound resilience of the human spirit in the face of unimaginable loss. Doaa's journey forces us to look beyond the numbing statistics of the refugee crisis and see the individual human beings at its heart—people who had lives, dreams, and families before war tore their world apart.
Her story is a powerful reminder that behind every number is a name, and behind every refugee is a story of what they were forced to leave behind. It challenges us to ask a difficult question: When faced with such suffering, what is our responsibility? Do we turn away, or do we, like the crew of the CPO Japan, choose to search for the lone survivor in a vast and indifferent sea?