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Do What You Are

11 min

Discover the Perfect Career for You Through the Secrets of Personality Type

Introduction

Narrator: Arthur and Julie work for the same recruiting firm. They have the same title, the same responsibilities, and the same compensation structure. Arthur is a star performer. He’s a high-energy, persuasive headhunter who thrives in the fast-paced, competitive environment. He loves the thrill of the chase and the satisfaction of closing a deal, earning generous commissions. Julie, on the other hand, is miserable. She spends too much time counseling candidates, trying to find the perfect long-term fit, and her supervisor constantly warns her about her low numbers. After just six weeks, she quits. Why does the exact same job feel like a perfect fit for one person and a complete failure for another?

The answer, according to Paul D. Tieger, Barbara Barron, and Kelly Tieger in their book Do What You Are, lies in a hidden blueprint within each of us: our personality type. They argue that true career satisfaction doesn’t come from chasing trends or even from what we’re good at, but from finding work that aligns with our innate, unchangeable personality.

Career Satisfaction Isn't About the Job, It's About You

Key Insight 1

Narrator: The book’s central argument is that traditional career counseling often misses the most critical factor for job satisfaction: personality. Most advice focuses on a three-legged stool of abilities, interests, and values. While important, these can change over time. What remains constant is our fundamental personality—how we get energized, process information, make decisions, and organize our lives. Ignoring this core self is why so many people end up in jobs that look good on paper but feel draining in reality.

Consider the story of Joanne, a 30-year-old elementary school math teacher. Based on traditional metrics, teaching was a perfect career. She excelled at math, enjoyed working with children, and valued education. Yet after seven years, she was completely burned out. The problem wasn't the subject or the students; it was the environment. The rigid structure, endless rules, and lack of intellectual challenge and creative innovation clashed with her core personality needs. She eventually realized she wasn't in the wrong field, just the wrong end of it. She went back to school and found immense satisfaction teaching math at a small college, where she had the flexibility, autonomy, and intellectual stimulation she craved. Joanne’s story shows that a job can tick all the right boxes for skills and interests but still be the wrong fit if it doesn’t suit who you are.

Your Personality Has a Four-Letter Code

Key Insight 2

Narrator: Do What You Are uses the framework of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) to help readers identify their personality blueprint. This system isn't about putting people in boxes, but about understanding their natural preferences across four key dimensions.

The first dimension is Extraversion (E) vs. Introversion (I), which describes where we get our energy. Extraverts are energized by the outer world of people and activity, like Peter, who feels a supermarket trip is a success based on how many people he runs into. Introverts are energized by their inner world of ideas and reflection, like Brent, who finds parties with superficial small talk utterly exhausting.

The second is Sensing (S) vs. Intuition (N), which explains how we gather information. Sensors trust concrete, tangible facts gathered through their five senses. Intuitives look for patterns, possibilities, and the big picture. In a business meeting, Elizabeth, a Sensor, might notice that projected profits don't align with the advertising budget. Monique, an Intuitive, might notice the strained body language between executives and sense that something is wrong, even if the numbers look fine. Both can be right, but they arrive at their conclusions differently.

The third dimension is Thinking (T) vs. Feeling (F), which describes our decision-making style. Thinkers make decisions based on objective logic and impartial analysis. Feelers make decisions based on personal values and the impact on people. When a student is caught breaking a rule, a dean with a Thinking preference might enforce a standard punishment for the sake of consistency. An assistant dean with a Feeling preference, like Robert in the book, might consider the student’s remorse and personal circumstances, opting for a more tailored, empathetic solution.

Finally, Judging (J) vs. Perceiving (P) describes our preferred lifestyle. Judgers prefer a planned, orderly life and enjoy making decisions to achieve closure. Perceivers prefer a flexible, spontaneous life and enjoy keeping their options open. When shopping for a bicycle, Amy, a Judger, quickly makes a decision and buys the top-selling model. Jeff, a Perceiver, asks endless questions and leaves the store without a bike, wanting to gather more information before committing.

The Four Temperaments Are Your Motivational Blueprint

Key Insight 3

Narrator: Beyond the four individual dimensions, the book groups the sixteen personality types into four broader temperaments, which reveal our core values and motivations. Understanding your temperament provides a powerful shortcut to identifying what you truly need from a job.

The book illustrates this with a story about a hospital staff meeting. When the Director of Planning, a Conceptualizer (NT), proposes a cutting-edge new health unit, she focuses on innovation and competitive advantage. The Director of Finance, a Traditionalist (SJ), immediately raises concerns about financial risk and suggests a thorough feasibility study. The Director of Operations, an Experiencer (SP), wants to mobilize a task force and start soliciting bids right away, focusing on immediate action. And the Director of Human Resources, an Idealist (NF), emphasizes the need for community support and ensuring the project benefits everyone involved. Each director’s reaction is driven by their temperament’s core values: competence for the NT, responsibility for the SJ, action for the SP, and authenticity for the NF.

Your Personality Develops in Predictable Stages

Key Insight 4

Narrator: While our core personality type is fixed for life, the way we use it evolves. The book explains the concept of "type development," a lifelong process where we gain access to our less-preferred functions. This explains why a job that was satisfying in our twenties might feel unfulfilling in our forties.

The story of Maureen, an ISTJ, perfectly captures this. Early in her career as a medical researcher, she was fulfilled by her work, which perfectly utilized her dominant Sensing (meticulous lab work) and auxiliary Thinking (verifying data). When her boss quit, she was offered a supervisory role. Initially hesitant, she realized she was in a new stage of life, ready to develop her third function, Feeling. She took the job and excelled, developing a supportive managerial style. Later, she began developing her fourth function, Intuition, which led her to evaluate new developments in cancer research and become a sought-after expert. Maureen’s career evolved in lockstep with her personality development, allowing her to find new layers of satisfaction at each stage.

Aligning Type with Career Creates Fulfillment

Key Insight 5

Narrator: Ultimately, the book is a practical guide to putting this self-knowledge into action. By understanding your type, temperament, and developmental stage, you can identify careers that won't just be jobs, but true vocations.

The story of Sarah provides a powerful example. Sarah, a bright and energetic woman, took a stable job in finance after college. However, she felt isolated and unfulfilled, unable to use her natural interpersonal skills. After taking a personality assessment, she discovered she was an ENFJ, a type often called "The Public Relations Specialist." This was a lightbulb moment. She researched PR, found a mentor, took courses, and eventually made a career change to a non-profit organization. In her new role, she thrived. She felt energized and fulfilled, using her natural talents to connect with the community and promote a mission she believed in. Within a few years, she was leading the department. Sarah’s story isn't about luck; it's about the transformative power of aligning what you do with who you are.

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from Do What You Are is that the secret to a satisfying career is not a secret at all—it’s a science of self-knowledge. The book dismantles the one-size-fits-all approach to career advice and replaces it with a personalized blueprint based on the enduring architecture of our personality. It’s a compelling argument that finding fulfilling work isn’t about changing yourself to fit a job, but about having the courage and insight to find a job that fits you.

The book leaves us with a profound challenge. We are often so focused on the question, "What should I do for a living?" that we forget to ask the more fundamental question: "Who am I?" By providing the tools to answer the second question, Do What You Are empowers us to finally find a meaningful and authentic answer to the first.

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