
Courage Is Calling
9 minFortune Favors the Brave
Introduction
Narrator: Why would the Spartans, the most famously brave society in history, build temples dedicated to Phobos, the god of fear? It seems like a contradiction. Why would warriors who trained from childhood to face death without flinching choose to honor the very emotion they sought to overcome? This isn't just a historical curiosity; it's a profound psychological puzzle. The Spartans didn't worship fear because they were secretly cowards. They studied it. They kept it close, acknowledged its power, and sought to understand it, believing that you cannot defeat an enemy you do not comprehend.
This ancient practice gets to the heart of a modern dilemma explored in Ryan Holiday’s book, Courage Is Calling: Fortune Favors the Brave. The book argues that we have misunderstood courage. We see it as a mythic quality possessed by a select few, a spontaneous act of heroism on a battlefield. Holiday dismantles this myth, revealing courage not as a gift, but as a discipline—a renewable resource available to anyone willing to first confront its true enemy: fear.
Fear is the Enemy to Be Understood, Not Ignored
Key Insight 1
Narrator: The book’s first major argument is that fear is the primary obstacle to a virtuous life. Every time we fail to speak up, to do the right thing, or to take a necessary risk, fear is the culprit. Holiday asserts that it is impossible to be courageous without first developing a relationship with fear.
He returns to the example of the ancient Spartans. By building temples to Phobos, they were externalizing the emotion, turning it from an internal, paralyzing feeling into an external force that could be analyzed, respected, and ultimately, managed. They understood that bravery is not the absence of fear—no human is without it. Rather, as Holiday writes, "it’s their ability to rise above it and master it that makes them so remarkable."
This reframes the challenge. The goal isn't to become fearless, which is impossible, but to become skilled at acting despite fear. The book posits that fear comes in many forms, from the terror of physical danger to the more common anxieties of public speaking, financial insecurity, or what other people will think. By identifying fear as the specific enemy, we can begin to develop strategies to combat it, just as the Spartans did. We can use logic to question our anxieties, break down worst-case scenarios to see if they are truly as catastrophic as they feel, and focus only on what is in front of us, rather than being paralyzed by the overwhelming scope of a problem.
Courage is an Active Choice, Not a Passive Feeling
Key Insight 2
Narrator: Courage Is Calling powerfully argues that courage is a verb. It is not a state of being one simply falls into; it is a conscious decision, an assertion of agency over a situation. It is the choice to step up and take ownership when it would be easier to remain a bystander.
To illustrate this, Holiday presents the life of Winston Churchill. Churchill was not a perfect man, and his life was filled with failures and missteps. Yet, his legacy is defined by a series of courageous moments. As a young man, he ignored teachers who called him dumb. As a war correspondent, he was taken prisoner and made a harrowing escape. In politics, he stood almost entirely alone in warning against the rise of Nazism, enduring ridicule from his peers. Even in old age, he demonstrated courage by taking up painting and sharing his work publicly, risking his reputation in a new arena.
Churchill’s life shows that courage is not one grand, heroic act, but a muscle built through repeated use. He famously said, "To each, there comes in their lifetime a special moment when they are figuratively tapped on the shoulder and offered the chance to do a very special thing... What a tragedy if that moment finds them unprepared." Holiday uses this to argue that we are all being tapped on the shoulder constantly, in ways both large and small. The courage to have a difficult conversation, to start a new project, to stand by a principle—these are the daily choices that prepare us for the defining moments of our lives.
Moral and Physical Courage Are Two Sides of the Same Coin
Key Insight 3
Narrator: Our culture tends to create a false dichotomy between physical courage—the soldier on the battlefield—and moral courage—the whistleblower in the office. Holiday argues this distinction is meaningless. Both forms of courage, he explains, involve the same fundamental ingredients: risk, sacrifice, commitment, and a willingness to put something on the line for a principle.
The life of Rosa Parks serves as a perfect case study. Her defining act of courage was not spontaneous. It was the culmination of over a decade of quiet, persistent bravery. For 42 years, she lived under the oppressive system of Jim Crow. In 1943, she joined the NAACP. In 1945, she undertook the difficult and dangerous process of registering to vote in Alabama. Her famous refusal to give up her seat on a Montgomery bus in 1955 was not the beginning of her fight, but the moment her years of quiet endurance and activism burst onto the public stage.
Her courage was not one of physical confrontation, but of immense moral fortitude. She risked her safety, her job, and her freedom. Her story demonstrates that courage can be quiet, patient, and built over a lifetime. It is the steadfast refusal to accept injustice, whether that requires charging into battle or simply sitting still. Both demand a triumph over fear for the sake of a greater good.
The Highest Form of Courage is Heroism—Acting for Others
Key Insight 4
Narrator: The book’s final section elevates the discussion from personal courage to the heroic. Heroism, Holiday defines, is the pinnacle of courage: "It is risking oneself for someone else." This is the moment when courage transcends self-interest and becomes an act of service or sacrifice.
The ultimate example of this is the story of the 300 Spartans at the Battle of Thermopylae. They knew they were marching to their deaths. There was no strategic victory to be won in that narrow pass. So why did they go? They went because their stand would buy time for the rest of Greece to rally. They were fighting not for their own lives, but for an idea—the preservation of their culture and their freedom. They were risking everything for people they would never meet.
Holiday argues that this heroic impulse is driven by something deeper than just bravery; it is driven by love and a sense of duty to a cause larger than oneself. It is the firefighter running into a burning building, the parent sacrificing for a child, or the leader who puts their people before their own safety. This is the final stage in the progression of courage: first, we rise above our own fear. Then, we act bravely for ourselves. Finally, we act heroically for others.
Conclusion
Narrator: The single most important takeaway from Courage Is Calling is that courage is not a lottery ticket won by a lucky few, but a virtue that must be deliberately cultivated. It is a daily practice, a renewable resource, and a moral obligation. The journey begins with the intellectual honesty to face our fears, progresses through the consistent choice to act despite them, and finds its ultimate meaning in serving a cause beyond ourselves.
The book leaves readers with a profound and practical challenge. It is not just a collection of inspiring stories about historical figures; it is a mirror and a manual. It forces us to ask: Where in my own life am I being called to be brave? As the writer Alexander Solzhenitsyn warned, "a decline in courage has been considered the first symptom of the end." In a world that often seems to reward conformity and silence, the practice of courage is therefore not just a path to a more fulfilling life, but a necessary act of defiance for the preservation of a just and thriving society. When life taps you on the shoulder, will you be ready?