
Burn the Boats
10 minToss Plan B Overboard and Unleash Your Full Potential
Introduction
Narrator: Imagine a 16-year-old boy from a poor neighborhood in Queens, New York, sitting in his guidance counselor's office. He has just announced his plan to drop out of high school. The counselor, well-meaning but dismissive, scoffs and tells him, "I'll see you at McDonald's." The boy, without missing a beat, replies, "If you see me at McDonald's, it's because I own it." That teenager was Matt Higgins, and his audacious act of defiance wasn't just youthful rebellion; it was the first step in a lifelong strategy for success. This strategy is the core of his book, Burn the Boats: Toss Plan B Overboard and Unleash Your Full Potential. It argues that the conventional wisdom of having a safety net is precisely what holds people back. The book posits that true, sustained success is only possible when there is no escape route, no Plan B, and no option but to move forward.
Your Instincts Are a More Powerful Compass Than Data
Key Insight 1
Narrator: In a world obsessed with analytics and data-driven decisions, Higgins argues that breakthrough success rarely comes from a spreadsheet. It emerges from the space between intuition and evidence. Game-changing ideas often appear illogical at first and lack the data to support them because they are, by definition, new. Trusting one's instincts, therefore, is not a reckless act but a necessary one for anyone looking to innovate rather than iterate.
Higgins’s own life is a testament to this principle. Growing up in poverty, he saw the traditional path of high school and college as a slow, uncertain route out of his family's desperate situation. His instinct told him there was a faster way. So, at sixteen, he deliberately failed his classes, dropped out of high school, aced his GED, and enrolled in college, all while working to support his ailing mother. Every external signal—from teachers to counselors—told him he was making a catastrophic mistake. Yet his internal vision was clear. This decision, born from intuition and desperation, set him on a trajectory that led to him becoming the youngest press secretary in New York City history and a renowned entrepreneur. The story illustrates that a personal vision, deeply connected to one's unique perspective, is a more reliable guide than the consensus of external "data."
The Illusion of the Safe Path
Key Insight 2
Narrator: The book challenges the very definition of risk. Many people believe the safest path is to stay in a stable job, collect a steady paycheck, and avoid making waves. Higgins argues this is an illusion. By staying in a "safe" position, one cedes control of their destiny to a boss, a company, or market forces. The truly riskier path is the one where you have no agency.
This is illustrated through the story of Jesse Derris, a public relations prodigy working at a top agency. He was successful and on a clear upward trajectory, but his future was ultimately tied to his boss's success. Higgins, his mentor, presented him with a choice: stay on the "safe" path or take a leap and start his own firm with Higgins's backing. The risk of leaving a secure, high-paying job was immense. However, the hidden risk of staying was stagnation and a lack of control. Encouraged by his partner and Higgins, Derris took the leap. He burned his boat to the corporate world and founded Derris and Company, which became a powerhouse in the direct-to-consumer space and was eventually acquired for a life-changing sum. His story shows that the "safe" bet is often the one you place on yourself, as it's the only one where you are in complete control of the outcome.
Anxiety Is a Tool, Not a Toxin
Key Insight 3
Narrator: Higgins doesn't advocate for a life free of fear and anxiety. Instead, he argues for optimizing it. Drawing on the Yerkes-Dodson law, a psychological principle that describes a bell-shaped curve relationship between arousal and performance, the book explains that a healthy dose of anxiety is essential for peak performance. Too little anxiety leads to complacency, while too much leads to paralysis. The goal is to operate at the top of that curve, where the pressure sharpens focus and drives action.
A vivid example of this comes from the sports world, with former New York Jets head coach Eric Mangini. To prepare his team for the high-stress environment of game day, Mangini would intentionally create chaos in practice. He’d blast heavy metal music, move practices to cavernous indoor fields with deafening echoes, and even bring in a former military colonel to run a "brain battlefield" to monitor and train the players' stress responses. His mantra was, "You play like you practice." By getting his players accustomed to discomfort and teaching them to manage their anxiety under controlled pressure, he was giving them a competitive edge. This approach demonstrates that fear and anxiety, when harnessed correctly, can be powerful tools for growth and performance.
Crises Force the Clarity That Creates Opportunity
Key Insight 4
Narrator: Most people fear crises, but Higgins reframes them as catalysts for reinvention. A crisis strips away the non-essential, forcing a level of focus and clarity that is difficult to achieve in times of stability. When faced with a worst-case scenario, the question is no longer "What should I do?" but "What must I do to survive?" This forced prioritization can unlock unexpected opportunities.
The story of Christina Tosi, founder of the dessert empire Milk Bar, perfectly illustrates this. When the COVID-19 pandemic forced her to shut down her brick-and-mortar stores, she could have focused all her energy on trying to salvage the existing business model. Instead, she asked a more powerful question: "If I was starting out today, what would I do?" This shift in perspective led her to double down on e-commerce, launch a viral baking show on Instagram, and ink deals to sell her products in supermarkets. Milk Bar emerged from the crisis not just intact, but far bigger and stronger, having transformed from a fast-casual chain into a global consumer packaged goods brand. The crisis didn't just present a problem; it presented an opportunity to burn the old boat and build a fleet.
True Scale Is Achieved by Submitting to the Greatness of Others
Key Insight 5
Narrator: The final stage of the "Burn the Boats" philosophy is about moving beyond individual achievement. After you’ve proven you can succeed on your own, true, lasting impact comes from building more boats—empowering others, building teams, and creating platforms for collective success. This requires a shift from being the hero of the story to being the one who identifies and unlocks the potential in others.
This transition is powerfully shown in the story of Aidan Kehoe, the founder of SKOUT CyberSecurity. Kehoe was a classic "Martyr" founder, a leader who shouldered the entire burden of the company himself, leading to burnout and stagnation. When Higgins's firm acquired SKOUT, they brought in an executive coach who delivered a brutally honest assessment of Kehoe's leadership flaws. Instead of rejecting the feedback, Kehoe embraced it. He shared the report with his entire team, committed to changing, and rebuilt his executive team with leaders who were better than him in their respective domains. Two years later, the company was acquired by Barracuda Networks for a nine-figure sum. Kehoe's journey shows that the ultimate act of leadership isn't doing everything yourself, but creating an environment where the greatness of others can flourish.
Conclusion
Narrator: The single most important takeaway from Burn the Boats is that a backup plan is not a safety net; it is an anchor. It subconsciously divides your focus, drains your motivation, and gives you an easy out when the journey gets difficult. The book argues that by deliberately removing the option of retreat, you unleash a level of commitment and resourcefulness you never knew you possessed. It forces you to confront challenges head-on, because there is simply no other choice.
This idea is both inspiring and deeply challenging. It asks us to question the very foundation of how we pursue our goals. We are taught to hedge our bets and prepare for the worst, but Higgins makes a compelling case that this prudence may be the very thing preventing our best. The book leaves you with a practical and profound question: What is your Plan B, the one you secretly rely on? And what could you truly achieve if you had the courage to toss it overboard?