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Wolves, Not Chickens

12 min

How Transforming the Pursuit of Success Raises Our Achievement, Happiness, and Well-Being

Golden Hook & Introduction

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Mark: Alright, Michelle, I'm going to give you a phrase: 'Survival of the Fittest.' What comes to mind? Michelle: Oh, that's easy. Competition. The strongest predator, the fastest gazelle, the top dog in the office. The one who wins, right? Mark: Exactly. It’s the foundation of how we think about success, evolution, everything. But what if the secret to thriving isn't being the fittest, but making everyone else around you fitter? What if our entire model of success is based on a huge, destructive misunderstanding? Michelle: That's a huge claim. You're telling me Darwin, or at least our pop-culture version of Darwin, got it all wrong? Where is this coming from? Mark: It's the central idea in Shawn Achor's book, Big Potential: How Transforming the Pursuit of Success Raises Our Achievement, Happiness, and Well-Being. And Achor isn't just some motivational speaker; he's a Harvard-trained researcher who spent over a decade studying happiness and success. He argues that our obsession with individual achievement—what he calls 'Small Potential'—is actually the thing holding us all back. Michelle: 'Small Potential.' I like that. It already sounds limiting. So he’s saying my drive to be the best on the team might actually be a bad thing? That feels… deeply counterintuitive. Mark: It is. And to show just how destructive this 'fittest' model can be, Achor tells a story that is... well, it's unforgettable. It involves chickens. Michelle: Chickens? Okay, I'm intrigued. This better be good.

The Myth of the Lone Genius and the Pecking Order Problem

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Mark: It's a story about an evolutionary biologist from Purdue University named William Muir. He was fascinated by productivity and wanted to test this exact idea: does 'survival of the fittest' really lead to the best outcomes? So he set up a brilliant experiment. Michelle: Let me guess, he didn't just watch them peck at corn. Mark: Not at all. He created two separate flocks of chickens. The first flock was just an average, run-of-the-mill group of chickens. They were left to themselves to breed and live naturally for seven generations. Michelle: Okay, that’s our control group. What about the second flock? Mark: The second flock was different. Muir identified the most individually productive chickens—the ones who laid the most eggs. He called them the 'super-chickens.' And for seven generations, he only bred the super-chickens with other super-chickens. He was creating a flock of elite, high-performing MVPs. Michelle: I can see where this is going. This is the corporate dream team, right? You take all your A-players, put them together, and expect record-breaking results. The egg production must have gone through the roof. Mark: That's what everyone would think. That's what the logic of 'Small Potential' tells us. But after seven generations, William Muir went to check on his two flocks. The first flock, the average one? They were doing great. They were plump, healthy, fully-feathered, and their egg production had skyrocketed by 160 percent. Michelle: Wow, 160 percent? That's incredible. So the super-chickens must have been off the charts. Mark: He went to check on the super-chickens. And what he found was that out of the entire flock... only three were still alive. Michelle: Wait, what? Three? What happened to the rest of them? Mark: They had pecked each other to death. The three survivors were barely hanging on, mostly featherless and covered in wounds. To get to the top, to be the most productive chicken in a group of hyper-competitive chickens, they had to suppress the productivity of their rivals. The only way to win was to make everyone else lose. Michelle: Oh my god. That is horrifying. So the 'star performers' literally murdered each other for the top spot? That's… dark. Mark: It’s incredibly dark. And Achor's point is that this isn't just a story about chickens. This is a perfect metaphor for so many of our systems. Think about schools that grade on a curve, forcing students to compete for a limited number of A's. Michelle: Or a sales team where everyone is ranked on a public leaderboard. I've seen that. It creates this frantic, paranoid energy. You're not collaborating; you're looking over your shoulder. You're either a 'super-chicken' or you're getting pecked. Mark: Exactly. That's the pecking order problem. All the energy that could have gone into laying more eggs—or creating better products, or innovating—is wasted on infighting and maintaining a social hierarchy. Achor says this is the invisible ceiling of 'Small Potential.' We think we're creating superstars, but we're actually just creating a system that's designed for self-destruction. Michelle: It's fascinating because the book has been widely praised, but some critics point out that the idea of 'collaboration is good' isn't exactly new. It sounds a bit like the Golden Rule with a scientific study attached. But that chicken story… that gives it a real edge. It’s not just about being nice; it’s about avoiding a bloodbath. Mark: That's the key. He’s not just making a philosophical argument. He's showing the tangible, destructive cost of a system built on hyper-individualism. He’s using data and research to prove that the way we've structured our pursuit of success is fundamentally, mathematically, wrong. Michelle: Okay, so the super-chicken model is a disaster. I'm sold. Don't put me in the high-performer coop. But what's the alternative? We can't just all sit around, hold hands, and hope for the best. That doesn't feel like a strategy for success either.

The Power of the Ecosystem: Becoming Better Together

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Mark: You're right. And Achor provides a perfect, real-world metaphor for the alternative. It's not about being passive; it's about being interconnected in a smart way. To see it, we have to leave the chicken coop and go to Yellowstone National Park. Michelle: From chickens to national parks. I like the scope. Mark: In the early 20th century, the gray wolves in Yellowstone were hunted to extinction. And for about 70 years, the park was wolf-free. But without their main predator, the elk population exploded. They stood around in the open, overgrazing the land, especially the young willow and aspen trees along the riverbanks. Michelle: I can picture it. The elk are having a great time, but the landscape is suffering. Mark: Terribly. The willows disappeared, which meant the beavers had no wood to build their dams. So the beaver colonies vanished. Without beaver dams to slow the water, the rivers started flowing faster, eroding their banks, and changing their course. The whole ecosystem was out of balance, becoming less diverse and less resilient. Michelle: It’s a classic story of unintended consequences. You remove one piece and the whole thing starts to unravel. Mark: Exactly. Then, in 1995, scientists decided to do something radical. They reintroduced a small number of gray wolves back into Yellowstone. And what happened next was astonishing. It's what Achor calls an example of 'Big Potential.' Michelle: They ate the elk, I assume. Mark: They did, but that was the least interesting part. The wolves didn't just reduce the elk population; they changed the behavior of the remaining elk. The elk stopped congregating in open valleys where they were vulnerable. They started moving, avoiding certain areas. And because the elk were no longer overgrazing the riverbanks, the willows and aspens started to grow back. Michelle: And with the trees back… Mark: The beavers came back. Because now they had lumber for their dams. The beaver dams created ponds and wetlands, which slowed the rivers down. This reduced erosion, and the rivers began to meander less. The new ponds attracted otters, muskrats, and ducks. The willow trees attracted songbirds. The wolves' leftover kills provided food for eagles and bears. The whole system began to heal itself. Michelle: Wow. So the wolves didn't just eat elk. They changed the geography of the park? That's incredible. Mark: They literally changed the physical geography. They are a keystone species. Their presence created the conditions for dozens of other species to thrive. This is what Achor means by an 'Ecosystem of Potential.' The wolves' success didn't take away from others; it created more success for everyone. Their potential was linked to the potential of the entire system. That's 'Big Potential.' Michelle: Okay, 'Ecosystem of Potential' can sound a bit like corporate buzzword bingo, but that story makes it crystal clear. It's about how one positive force can create a cascade of benefits that nobody could have predicted. Mark: Precisely. And it's not just a metaphor. Achor backs this up with hard data. He points to the famous Framingham Heart Study, which found that your risk of heart disease is tied to the health of your friends and neighbors. Or the work by Christakis and Fowler showing that happiness is literally contagious through social networks. If your friend becomes happier, you have a significantly higher chance of becoming happier too. Michelle: So in an office, the 'wolf' isn't the aggressive top salesperson. The 'wolf' could be the leader who creates psychological safety, so the 'beavers'—the quiet but brilliant engineers—can finally do their best work and build amazing things. And that, in turn, inspires the marketing team, and so on. It's a ripple effect. Mark: That is the perfect analogy. The wolf isn't the one who pecks others to death. The wolf is the one who makes the whole system healthier, which allows everyone to reach their own highest potential.

Synthesis & Takeaways

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Mark: So when you put the two stories together, the choice becomes incredibly clear. We can build our teams, our companies, and our lives like a super-chicken coop, where we peck each other to death for scraps of 'Small Potential.' Or we can build them like Yellowstone, an ecosystem where helping others thrive unlocks a level of 'Big Potential' for everyone that was previously unimaginable. Michelle: It's a powerful contrast. One is a story of scarcity and fear; the other is a story of abundance and regeneration. But I have to push back a little. This is all so inspiring, but how does one person start building Yellowstone on a random Tuesday at work, especially if the whole company culture is a chicken coop? It feels so big. Mark: That's the most important question. And Achor's answer is that you don't start by trying to change the whole system. You start with what he calls the 'Virtuous Cycle.' It’s a positive feedback loop. You make someone else better, which gives you more resources, energy, or connections, which in turn makes you better, and you can then reinvest that back into the system. Michelle: So it starts small. Like a single wolf. Mark: Exactly. And he gives five practical strategies for this, which he calls the SEEDS of Big Potential. We don't have time for all five, but one of the most powerful is 'Enhance Your Resources' by becoming what he calls a 'Prism of Praise.' Michelle: A 'Prism of Praise.' I like that image. What does it mean? Mark: It means you stop being a spotlight that just shines on yourself, or a black hole that absorbs all the credit. Instead, when praise comes your way, you act like a prism and refract that light onto your team. If your boss says, "Great presentation," you say, "Thanks, but I couldn't have done it without Sarah's data analysis and Tom's slide design." Michelle: Ah, so you're actively redirecting the credit. You're using that moment of praise to lift someone else up. Mark: You're building your ecosystem. You're making Sarah and Tom feel valued, which makes them more likely to help you in the future. You're signaling to your boss that you're a team player, which builds trust. It's a tiny act, but it's the beginning of a Virtuous Cycle. It's the first step in turning a chicken coop into a Yellowstone. Michelle: That's actually something anyone can do tomorrow. It doesn't require a budget or permission. It just requires a shift in mindset from 'me' to 'we.' It makes you wonder... who are the 'wolves' in your life? The people who make you better just by being around them? Mark: And maybe more importantly, who could you be a 'wolf' for? How could you change your little corner of the ecosystem to help someone else thrive? That, according to Shawn Achor, is where our true, Big Potential is waiting to be discovered. Michelle: It’s a hopeful thought. That our greatest success isn't something we achieve, but something we create together. Mark: This is Aibrary, signing off.

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