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A Bigger Prize

12 min

How We Can Do Better Than the Competition

Introduction

Narrator: On a beautiful August day at a New Hampshire county fair, the main event begins. Engines roar as cars in the demolition derby reverse into a chaotic, muddy arena. The goal is simple and brutal: be the last car running. A driver named Eileen in car 23 smashes into her opponents, methodically destroying them until only a few wrecks remain. The crowd cheers wildly as the wreckage is cleared, celebrating the destructive spectacle of a clear winner and many losers. This scene, both entertaining and disturbing, serves as a powerful parable for a force that dominates modern life.

In her book A Bigger Prize, author Margaret Heffernan argues that this demolition derby mindset—this relentless focus on competition—has become the default script for our schools, our workplaces, and our societies. She questions the core assumption that competition is always the best motivator, revealing how this obsession often leads not to excellence, but to corruption, inequality, and a profound waste of human potential. The book embarks on a journey to uncover the high cost of our competitive addiction and explore a more powerful alternative: collaboration.

The Myth of Competition: From Sibling Rivalry to Hypercompetitiveness

Key Insight 1

Narrator: Heffernan argues that our competitive programming begins in the home, most intensely through sibling rivalry. She illustrates this with the story of the Hobbs family, where three young brothers—Harry, Tom, and Oliver—live in a state of constant, exhausting conflict. Despite having loving parents and ample resources, every slice of cake, every moment of attention, becomes a zero-sum game. The eldest, Harry, is driven by a need to be "top dog," undermining his brother Tom at every turn, even eating a piece of cake the dog licked just to ensure he "won." This early-life training ground teaches a powerful, and often damaging, lesson: resources are scarce, and one person's gain is another's loss.

When this dynamic goes unresolved, it can fester into what Heffernan calls hypercompetitiveness—a destructive trait where the need to win eclipses all else. This is vividly portrayed in the story of Diane Wilson, whose life was defined by the rivalry with her academically gifted older sister, Beth. The competition was so toxic that Diane subconsciously sabotaged her own success to avoid her sister's envy and attacks, choosing not to pursue a degree for fear of not measuring up. This unresolved conflict left her with deep-seated self-doubt and an inability to collaborate effectively in her adult life. Heffernan shows that this isn't just a personal failing; it's a learned behavior that cripples relationships and stifles potential, proving that the lessons learned in the family arena have profound, lifelong consequences.

The Pecking Order Illusion: Why Heroic Leaders and Steep Hierarchies Fail

Key Insight 2

Narrator: The competitive drive forged in childhood often finds its home in the workplace, creating steep hierarchies and what is known as a "pecking order." This term was coined by scientist Thorleif Schjelderup-Ebbe, who observed that in any flock of hens, a clear social hierarchy emerges through aggression, determining who gets to eat first. Heffernan uses this concept to critique corporate cultures that celebrate "superstars" at the expense of the group.

A famous experiment at Purdue University perfectly illustrates this folly. An evolutionary biologist sought to create a flock of "super-chickens" by isolating the most productive egg-layers and breeding them together over generations. The result was not a flock of thriving superstars, but a dysfunctional, violent group where only three hens survived—the rest had been pecked to death by their hyper-aggressive peers. Meanwhile, an average flock, left to its own devices, thrived and saw its egg production increase dramatically. This experiment is a stark metaphor for corporate strategies like Jack Welch's "rank and yank" system at GE, which created a culture of fear and internal competition. Heffernan argues that such systems don't foster excellence; they foster burnout, cheating, and the suppression of creativity. In contrast, companies like W. L. Gore & Associates, with its flat structure and emphasis on trust, demonstrate that collaboration and mutual respect are far more effective drivers of sustained innovation and success.

The Cloning Effect: How Competition Kills Creativity

Key Insight 3

Narrator: A central myth of capitalism is that competition drives innovation. Heffernan dismantles this idea, arguing that it more often leads to conformity and cloning. When the pressure to win is high and the financial stakes are enormous, risk-aversion takes over. Instead of developing truly original ideas, industries simply copy what has already proven successful.

The music industry provides a clear example with the proliferation of Auto-Tune. Initially designed as a subtle corrective tool, it became a crutch used to create a perfectly pitched but homogenized sound, stripping the unique character from artists' voices. As R&B artist Ne-Yo lamented, you can't tell who is singing anymore because "everybody sounds the same." A similar pattern exists in the pharmaceutical industry, which pours billions into developing "me-too" drugs—slight variations of existing blockbuster medications that offer little to no therapeutic advantage but allow companies to extend patents and protect market share. This focus on imitation represents a massive opportunity cost, diverting resources away from the search for genuine medical breakthroughs. True innovation, Heffernan contends, comes not from copying the competition, but from creating entirely new choices, as exemplified by companies like Method Home Care, which redefined the cleaning products market through a focus on design and sustainability.

The Race to the Bottom: When Winning Means Everyone Loses

Key Insight 4

Narrator: When competition is framed solely around cost, it creates a destructive "race to the bottom" where the hidden costs are externalized onto society, workers, and the environment. Heffernan provides a harrowing look at this phenomenon through the industrial hog farming industry in North Carolina. In the relentless pursuit of cheap meat, Concentrated Animal Feeding Operations (CAFOs) create vast lagoons of toxic waste that pollute the air and water of surrounding communities, which are disproportionately poor and African American.

The system exploits not only the environment but also the workers, who face dangerous conditions, and the public, which is exposed to the growing threat of antibiotic-resistant bacteria bred in these factory farms. Local residents like Elsie Herring describe being unable to sit on their porches or open their windows due to the overwhelming stench and spray of hog waste. This is the true price of cheap bacon. Heffernan contrasts this with businesses like Emma Bridgewater's pottery company, which deliberately chose not to outsource production and instead built a thriving, ethical business in a once-depressed English town. Her conclusion is stark: a $4.99 bikini or a cheap pork chop doesn't exist unless someone, somewhere, is paying the real price.

The Folly of Bigness: Why Scale Creates Impunity and Risk

Key Insight 5

Narrator: The competitive drive to be the biggest often leads to organizations that are too large to manage, too complex to understand, and too powerful to hold accountable. The disastrous 2007 acquisition of the Dutch bank ABN/AMRO by the Royal Bank of Scotland (RBS) serves as a cautionary tale. Driven by CEO Fred Goodwin's ambition for status and scale, RBS pursued the deal with reckless abandon, ignoring warnings from within and conducting minimal due diligence.

The culture at RBS was so focused on the "adrenaline of the chase" that anyone who raised doubts was dismissed as a "wimp." The acquisition made RBS the world's largest bank for a fleeting moment, just before the 2008 financial crisis hit, forcing a massive government bailout. The sheer size and complexity of the merged entity made effective integration impossible and allowed its leaders to plausibly deny knowledge of the immense risks they had taken on. Heffernan argues that this pursuit of bigness creates a dangerous moral hazard, where institutions become "too big to fail," effectively outsourcing their risk to the public.

The Collaborative Alternative: Finding a Bigger Prize

Key Insight 6

Narrator: After deconstructing the failures of competition, Heffernan presents a powerful alternative: collaboration. She argues that for humanity's greatest challenges, cooperation is not a soft-hearted ideal but a strategic necessity. The ultimate proof is the story of the Human Genome Project.

In the late 1990s, a public, international consortium of scientists was methodically mapping the human genome, sharing all data freely and immediately. They were suddenly challenged by a private company, Celera, led by the brash Craig Venter, who promised to do it faster and intended to patent genes, effectively privatizing the blueprint of human life. What ensued was a race, but the public project's leader, John Sulston, refused to play by Celera's rules. He insisted on the principle of open collaboration, arguing that the genome belonged to everyone. In the end, the collaborative, open-source model not only kept pace but ensured that this fundamental knowledge remained in the public domain for the benefit of all. This achievement shows that the "bigger prize" is not about individual victory but about what can be accomplished when we pool our resources, trust one another, and work toward a shared goal.

Conclusion

Narrator: The single most important takeaway from A Bigger Prize is that our blind faith in competition as the primary engine of progress is an exhausted and dangerous illusion. Margaret Heffernan systematically demonstrates that from our personal relationships to our global institutions, a winner-takes-all mentality consistently fosters fear, cheating, and conformity, while actively stifling the very creativity and resilience we need to thrive. The true path to success and fulfillment lies in recognizing our interdependence.

The book challenges us to fundamentally redefine what it means to succeed. It asks us to move beyond the simple, often destructive, question of "How can I win?" and instead embrace a more profound and powerful one: "What can we build together?" In a world facing complex, interconnected problems, learning to collaborate is no longer just an option; it is the essential skill for our survival and our future.

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